Here is my story. The man that I'm in love with is moving to London next week. I've known him since we were three and I've loved him always, but I don't know how he feels. His name is William and he is 21 years old and I love everything about him, but I am having my doubts about whether he wants me at all. We have been through a lot together. we have been to India and back together, and we were also told that we were soulmates and all that crap by a very wise woman in my city. I've always believed that he loved me back because the way he treats me. He even told me once when we were in India. He's a total gentleman and he has and never would do anything to harm me. He has always stood up against those who have tried to hurt me and then some. The problem is that he has a girlfriend, recently added, I might say. He doesn't love her though, I can see it in his eyes. She doesn't deserve a man as fine as William for one minute. I'm not saying that I am worthy of him. but I only wish that he would choose me because I would rather spend one day one day of my life with William than spend my entire lifetime without him. What do you say, should I go after him?
You definitely convinced me too I would say go for it You will wonder what if for the rest of your life if you don't trust me and you are definitely in love with him if you mean what you said.
Well you just convinced me that you should go after him. I suppose the hardest thing to do is to convince yourself. I don't know how far London is from the United Kingdom, but I do know a long distance relationship is very hard to maintain. It sounds as though you are head-over heels for this guy, and you make it seem as though you will never see him again. If that's the case, you need to say something NOW! He has probably been waiting for you to say something, because I'm sure he has had thoughts about being with you. Soulmates is a deep thing. If you 2 are indeed soulmates, I would advise finding a way to be with him no matter what. Don't let a move take away something so special. Be aware though.If you are wrong about this, if could ruin your friendship a little. So yeah, I say go to him, look him in the eyes, and tell him what's on your mind. Good Luck!
No, I don't think you should throw yourself in front of a moving train. He knows your there, just a train(engineer)sees you. This is something he has to figure out. Let him go. I am also assuming that his move entails business and you are still entering the business world. Maybe he wants you to be sure, he wants you to find who you are, to challenge yourself, your mind. This is all part of life. There is a reason he has a girlfriend and he chose her, not you. Just let William know that you will always be his friend.
I can agree with what she is saying about what you should do, but not why you should do it. Guys don't think that deep when comes down to a female that he likes. I do agree that MAYBE you should him go and learn more of who you are. But I think you should tell him how you feel, and tell him you understand if now is a bad time. That way, he'll be thinking of you more often. & If he does go back to the UK he'll be thinking of you.
Sincerely, A Loving Black Man - More than a year ago
yeah, talk to him and be truly honest. it sounds like you two may be meant to be. maybe he is scared to tell you. maybe he is waiting because he wants to marry you and wants to wait until he is ready to marry. or until he thinks you are ready. good luck!
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