There's this guy who I've never spoken to directly before. We met through a mutual friend but we never became friends. I kinda have a crush on him but I'm too shy to talk to him or anything. Anyway, he asked my best friend how I was doing and I got so excited. But the next time I saw him, nothing changed and we were still back to acting like we didn't know who the other person was. What does this all mean, exactly?
2: Doesn't care/has no opinion and was asking about you to your mutual friend in a completely unserious way which you are over analyzing, as in he was probably just making conversation with his friend.
3: Wouldn't mind getting to know you better, either as a friend or more, but is just in one of those acquaintance-would-like-to-be-friends awkward situations.
I'd say just talk to him like he was anyone else to see how things go. You said there's a mutual friend involved so that's probably a good way to introduce conversation. Maybe something like hey, heard you had a great time with (your mutual friend's name) the other day doing (whatever the hell they did together the other day). Be sure to make it a good conversation, but that kinda goes without saying.
If he gets nervous at all or sucks at talking to you, it's because he likes you. If he acts normal, he could still like you and just be hiding it, but enjoy becoming his friend and see how things go from there. Even if he acts too cool for you, he might still like you, but it's much less likely he still likes you.
Then of course, if the conversation just goes wonderfully and he really seems to enjoy talking to you, he likes you. Maybe is just being nice, but you'll figure that out in time.
Some guys are too shy to let someone know that they are interested in them becuase they fear rejection. Don't worry, if he does not make the first move then break the ice and talk to him. Just be casual about it and say "I haven't heard from you in a while just wondering what you're up too?" Just sometihng to break the ice. Once he sees that there is no possibility of rejection from you he will open up. The first step is always the most difficult.
Maybe you show find out some more information about the guy from your friend and you can go from there.I'm kind of in the same situation and I'm a very shy person, but I went out of my comfort zone and text the guy I like. If I can do it then so can you, so just try to make the first move, because you will never know until you try.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I don't really care where we go, as long as I can be with that person. I wouldn't mind sitting in the backyard.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
Probably everything. I won't just go out with someone I just met. I have to have known them for a while. I don't just see someone on the street and decide I want to go on a date with them; that would be awkward.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 10 months ago
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