okay so me and this guy have been seeing each other on and off for the past 3 years but it has never been exclusie more of a agreement. i never call him and he rarely calles me. we only text each other and we see each other no more then once a week when one or the other is "lonely" ! when were together he let it be known that he missed me, he asks how my week or day was, and trys to consider my feelings. so to make a long story short recently i begin to notice that i have gained feelings for him, dont you think if the feeling was mutual he would say something? i mean he is a guy for goodness sake
Maybe it is mutual, but I know it's tough when you're not sure if the other person likes you or not. I would say that a good way to find out if it's mutual or not is to just go ahead and show him some of the affection you are wanting to and see if he returns it. If it's mutual, he may just be happy that you are feeling the same way about him that he does about you. The only problem is, that, if you don't try to let him know in some way, you may be left wondering and he may also be left wondering, which normally leads to mixed signals and then hurt feelings. However, if you show him how you feel (as opposed to telling him), you have at least done your part to let him know. I suggest against telling him, because it's pretty risky, and once the words are out, you can't take them back. Those are my thoughts. Do they help at all?
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