Are we just friends with benefits or we more than that?

you guys are just friends.Until one of you ask the golden question and the other party agrees to it.

he wants to be more than friends without losing the benefits

I had a dude call me a "frover" once.somewhere between friends and lovers. I hated that because I liked him a whole lot. YOU have the power to make YOU happy, and if you want to be with this guy exclusively then you need to voice that to him. Why let HIM dictate where you fit into his life? Maybe you should suddenly not have as much time for him as you did in the past. Be busier, make your phone calls short, and if you can't resist having sex with him (which I think you should if you want more with him) then act as if you are using him and send him on his way. He knows he's got you by you asking where you stand with him. Stop that immediately and he'll wander where he fits into your life. Let him be jealous all he wants. When you are his and he has made it right, then he could have isuues with other dudes in your life. Until then, do your thang and YOU set the standards from now on. Power to you~

oh hun who cares what you guys are! just enjoy the fun you guys are having. oh but if you like him then its a different story.

just ask him straight up where do you guys stand