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Major player or can it be relationship?

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kelly88 (Age:36 to 45)     When: More than a year ago
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Guys I need your help. Met this guy online about 3 weeks ago. Went out with him a couple of times, he's very affectionate and said how much he liked me on the second date. Communicated a couple of days after the second date. Things seem to go pretty well and then he goes neutral the third day, but makes plan for the following week. Have not heard from him the last couple of days. He has not gotten the goods, but has insinuated that's where he wants to go. My instincts say run and that I'm dealing with a major player, due to him being very affectionate when we are together and does not make major efforts to get to know me otherwise. Am I making too much of this?

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nicewiseguy (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
I second what sexwiseman said there.. I am currently pursuing a girl I am very much into, & am doing all I can to get to know her, & despite my high sex drive I would rather just be with her & am not pressuring sex in the slightest... as it would be well worth the wait & is not my priority.. I think you are dealing with a guy who just wants to use you... sorry
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Question Asker Totally agree with you. He texted yesterday, after not hearing from him for 3 days. I texted back and canceled a date we were suppose to have. He called to ask why, told him I was busy.
I'm running.. Thank you so much for the honest answer. - More than a year ago

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sexwiseman (Age:30 to 35)      When: More than a year ago
In these cases, following your instinct is always a good idea. As you said, if he is not willing to get to know you besides in an affectionate way, what else would he really want? Women for the most part have great instincts, and if running is what your instincts are telling you to do, why are you not paying attention to them?
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Fransou19 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Girl RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN. Same thing did happen to me he take my number call the day after don't call over the week end after 3 days. And show hope a hour late in a date. Girl RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN again.
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