Well if you read the last question, the guy I've been talkin to for the past four months, we decided to see where things go, maybe it'll get somewhere because we obviously have a thing for one another. For the first couple of weeks things went good, until recently when I wanted to spend more time with him but he claims that he lives a busy lifestyle. I have no idea what it is that makes him so busy, but I barely see or talk to him, and when I do see him, it's either for 20 minutes, or 2 hours because he has to rush off to another engagement. I wouldn't feel so bad if I knew what he was doing. Here's the thing, we haven't had sex, yet and the last time he was here, flo was in town, so as soon she left I told him to come over, and he said "he had stuff to do" so I kinda flipped and told him never mind. the next day I explained that maybe we should b friends, because it's obvious he doesn't have any room for anybody in his life, and he ignores me! I been texting and calling and he ignores me!. Should I have been more understanding to his "busy lifestyle" even though I don't know what he does at night. or do I have a right to feel neglected and give him that option of us just being friends ( and it's not another girl, that has been confirmed)
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(Age:18 to 24)
When: 27 days ago
because he could just be one of those people who like to take things slow and you are moving too fast for him if he isn't busy and just making it up
hmm but ye.well I guess you should wait for a bit till you see him next time and actually ask what excatly he does, becuase he could actually be busy, I can understand as that is my problem, I warned my boyfriend at the beginning how I don't think I would have enough time for him and he seems to manage just seeing me once a week. but the difference is that I showed him my work and why I'm always busy so he can at least know where to find me and when not to bother me.
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