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Has he lost interest?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I met this guy randomly at a party and made out with him. In my mind it was totally no strings. A guy I was interested in had just hurt me and I needed something to take my mind off of it. Anyway, I gave the guy my number but didn't have any intentions of seeing him again. This guy bugged me for weeks to hang out with him. Getting mad at me when I was busy. I was so frustrated with this guy! He was like a creepy stalker I just couldn't shake. It was cute that he was so interested and kept wanting to take me out and get to know me but wow. I was polite to him, but I was definitely the opposite of interested.

Finally I ran into him at a party one night, and shockingly he changed my mind. We hit it off and I stayed the night there with him. No sex or anything (he knows I'm a virgin). I was very skeptical about staying there but it just sort of happened. He called me the next day and talked about meeting up again. So that night we met up again and I stayed the night again. He introduced me to all his friends and had me stay the next day to eat breakfast and stuff and then brought me home.

He kept asking if I enjoyed spending time with him, if I liked his friends and even asked me the second morning if we were going to discuss where all this was going. I'm showing interest in him but I'm being very cautious with my heart. Whenever I start to open up I get hurt so I'm scared. Things seemed to be going good. But now I'm home for Thanksgiving and I feel like he's not contacting me like he used to. Not as often and he doesn't seem to be mad about not getting to see me like he used to get. Maybe it's because I didn't used to think about it before (because I wasn't interested) but I'm wondering if he feels like I'm not a challenge anymore. Has he lost interest?


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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
This is exactly the thing I don't get about you women, you meet a guy and he asks you out on a date and you keep giving him the run around bullshit I am busy, or you just don't answer your phone, so this is what happens the guy goes SCREW THAT CHICK not waisting my time on her if she won't call back.

Now this is the point that might differ from guy to guy, with me if a girl ever does that crap to me and I see her again it's a whole different ball game, and here's why I have now gone from being ok I like this chick to I like this girl but I can't trust her as far as I can spit. You have left a bad taste in my mouth because of what you did, ignoring the calls and always being busy. You probably won't even realize that I actually care anymore because I will act like everything is great, but in my mind I am thinking it's pay back time.

I tell women all the time if you mess with me you can try but when your done with your games, and it's my turn your the one whose going to get hurt not me. And this is what I do I act all happy go lucky around them turn on the charm end up sleeping with them and never call them back, or ever talk to them again. And ladies that is why you don't want to play these games with some guys, and so many women do and they end up getting hurt in the end.
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cutebubble      When: More than a year ago
I think he thought you weren't so interested in him. You kinda started off ignoring him or telling him you were busy all the time (he was being too full on, like eager guys are usually), and then later you kind of like, didn't really discuss where it was going. So he prob gave up, or tried to move on. But I guess you can talk to him again to see how he feels. You should ring him sometimes too, so its not just like him doing all the footwork
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