Hi.. I just broke off with my girlfriend 3 wks bk.Though we only dated for about 2 months, but I still find really difficult to get over it perhaps this is my first relationship and I'm a rather shy person.Due to this, it really lowers my confidence a bit.I'm already at my 30s and feeling a bit hopeless in relationships now.How can I get back and start dating again?Anything I can do to boost my morale?
jjellybean
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
She wasn't for you. I know that's hard to hear but she could have at least given you sum time. I'm not shallow at all but you need to get back out there. Don't let her hold you down. Instead of hurting, thank God you were with her while you were and go find one that''s worth your time
Use this one as a learning experience since you're still a little new to the dating world. Don't let your confidence take a hit...if the two of you didn't work out, it doesn't mean it's hopeless, just that you two weren't meant to be and it's good to recognize that before you get in too deep. Go out with your buddies and flirt a little bit, play with online dating too (it's one of the most popular trends now!) and get your feet wet before you dive in. Just don't give up!
Hi! I know this is kind of awkward but relationships are tricky at first.my first real relationship was really confusing and difficult but at the same time I realized that this isn't it.i know that I am a fairly good looking person but just because one relationship doesn't work out doesn't mean all of them won't.don't let it get you down go 1 step at a time.someone once told me that the little things will try to get you but the big things are what matters the most.keep your head high.
I agree, first relationships are hard but man a 2 months long relationship is nothing, she didn't get to know you more and possible did not want to. So she doesn't deserve you being sad about her. There is plenty of fish out there. (excuse my language ladies) and as everything in life, you will get better with more experience. So count this one as an experience and move on to the next.