So I have many questions. I really like this guy and I feel like I can be myself 100% of the time that I am around him. I start to shake when I think am around him. Is this normal to feel this way and to be scared of these feelings? Also a week ago, I showed my friends a picture of him from the camera that he gave me. And they showed their friends (F.y.i all of these people were girls). All basically said the same thing "OMG, he's hot! I'd do him in a minute". It made me realize, that if they have this reaction, what will happen when the spring semester starts...I really like him and I want to see if he is into me as more than a friend. So to the guys, would it be awkward if a girl that you just became friends with said "I like you, and I was wondering if you wanted to go on a date with me?" or would it be better to ask "Do you want to go on a date on (this day)?"
Konvicts
(Age:Under 18)
When: More than a year ago
You can always ask this guy out to the movies or dinner as just friends without hinting that you like him with just the question alone. It would be better if you waited to tell him your feelings. I'm not saying you have to wait weeks, you should just let him get comfortable (if he isn't already) with you. You can even tell him what you told us in this question (about how you really like him and you feel as if you can be yourself around him). So make sure you stick with being yourself.
Also you said he gave you a camera? Has he done anything else for you especially? This guy could somewhat already like you. Don't be scared of those feelings, you just have butterflies when your around him. Remember not to be too nervous when he's around, and eventually tell him your feelings but the timing has to be right. Go on a couple dates with him to give him the hint, who knows, he might feel the same way. Just remember to take it slow.
Well, the day he gave me the camera, he was offering some other stuff of his to me. Why? I don't know. He never did anything like that before. When we go out to eat, he always pays for everything. Even if it costs like 69 cents. - More than a year ago
Answerer
Yeah, he has feelings for you. He seems like a gentleman, if he treats you right and you get a good vibe when your around him, don't be scared to let your feelings out. Just act upon it smoothly and don't rush things. Remember to be yourself. - More than a year ago
Question Asker
Ok. Thank you. I think next time I hear from him, I'll ask if he wants to get dinner or something, like we usually do. ^_^ - More than a year ago
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