I met this guy (hes 18) at a funeral and apparently have said hi to him before (I don't remember him but I know I said hello to someone on that specific day). Anyways we exchanged phone numbers and since then we have been talking every night. He knows everything about me and can remember everything I ever wore when he saw me.
We had hot and steamy phone sex and he claims to be deeply in love with me. He's not my boy friend but we both like each other. Lately, however he's changed, he hasn't called, claims to be always busy between college, his church or his team sports. I want to believe him but friends have said he may have another girl. I can't call it cheating because we are only friends but what could it be? Does he really like me or is he using me?
You have to contact him and confront him. If he says he's busy with college,etc and his friends say otherwise, it's their word against his. Your always going to be guessing until you find out for sure. He can claim he deeply loves you but actions speak louder than words, so think about what he has done for you to actually prove he's in love with you and not just want to 'use' you.
Follow your heart on this one, find out if this guy is playing you or if he actually loves you. It can go one of many ways so be prepared for anything. You could end up loving this guy and being with him. He could end up having a girlfriend and you being left with the option to move on. Or he could try and play you. It's a gamble, but it's up to you whether you take the chance or not. Be smart, be careful and I wish you the best of luck.
Maybe he has a girlfriend seriously if he talked to you so much before, now he might have girlfriend if he doesn't. A person that really liked you wouldn't stop talking to you just like that.
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