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How do I get him back? He just wants to be friends..

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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So over the summer I met this guy and I can say that I fell in love with him it seems only days after meeting him (I have never told him I love him). at first we were just hooking up, then it turned into more. we dated until the middle of january and it broke my heart when he broke up with me.i have never felt like this about anyone, I am CRAZY about him! he told me he wanted to be with other girls and see what was out there, and wanted to take it back to being just friends. we have been friends ever since and when we hang out its not liek we never dated at all and he always tells me I'm his best friend. but part of me still thinks he likes me because he calls and asks about me to my friends and he always wants to hang out. I just need to know what I can do to get him back with out scaring him off, I mean I don't want him to think we can't be friends because I'm too in love with him to handle it... and it feels like we are just friends now and I don't know how to even act. AHHH HELP ME! I feel like I'm going crazy just being friends with him.


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rudnick_z
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rudnick_z      When: 8 months ago
tell him
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tahitisurfer22
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tahitisurfer22      When: 9 months ago
he just wants to be friends ahw god what a pussy, that guy needs to step up haha
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Anonymous User      When: 3 months ago
Let your boobs be out there when you see him.
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SarahLou      When: 4 months ago
don't be avalible for him all the time. Make him think you have started meeting other guys - its what he wanted right? Then see how his behaviour is. Be descreet about it at first, tell him your busy and can't meet him tonight, but don't say why. after a few times of this if he asks just say your forcing yourself to do what he wanted - to move on. Still see him and act how you do, be all happy and that. Get one of your friends to ask how he feels about you dating other guys, and then whatever he says they should say she still likes you but thinks you don't like her. get them to tell him they think he should ask you out if he likes you as he might lose you. this way he knows you like him and its up to him what his next moves are. Becareful if you do this thou, he might not act on getting you back - but if he doesn't at least you know how he feels - good luck x
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Anonymous User      When: 5 months ago
just friends can mean 2 things
1. sorry your not the one, don't want to hurt you
2. I don't think you like me so I say this and hope you sound sad and then can turn it into more

-I think you might be the fallback girl, the one who will always be there despite him, he could be gone and you would still want to be with him without him caring in that way
-sad to say, if you are this so called fallback girl and he doesn't return the emotions, you are going to be in pain for as long as you care about him and he won't know it, believe me it hurts like hell and that's what your going through
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jaejy      When: 7 months ago
when he said he wanted to see other people, right there and then, to me, that basically tells you that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. he wants 'others' out there. I'd just let him go and find someone just as good or better that'll want to be with you, just you.
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hazel00      When: 8 months ago
if you really want him back step up your game look really amazing and let him see you...flirt with another guy in front of him and if he gets mad you'll know he has feelings for you but jus doesn't know what to do about them since therz so much other girls around...and you always get him back with the " I thought were just friends" y are you getting mad. don't forget every relationship should start off with jus being friends...and if all fails tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same hell tell you he's not ready for a rel. or more dumb excuses than that would be ur q. to move on.
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2sweet2handle      When: 9 months ago
i think he likes you, but he doesn't want to be in a relationship...move on, guys like that only bring trouble... or maybe if you really are so crazy about him, wait...give him some time, and in the end he will come back to you, I'm sure, he needs time, you can't fix it or him, only time can...
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always-believe      When: 9 months ago
He said he wants to be friend with you but you're in love with him.What if a guy in love with you but you just want to be good friend with him.This is actually same situation.I know it sound wicked and I understand your feeling.If you give but does not received in return, don't you think it is just hurting yourself?I know it's hard to do it but if I were you, I try to avoid him and run as fast as I can.
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Stacygrecko      When: 9 months ago
To tell you the truth, the best way to get him back is to fight temptation. I know how hard it is for you because you love him and all you want to do is be with him, but whatever you do, DO NOT blurt out stuff like this "I love you and I can't be without you anymore!" That will make you sound desperate and desperate is unattractive. You have to just be yourself towards him and make him miss you. Don't tell him straightforward how you feel because it will be too easy and it'll put him under pressure. Act like you're okay without him, and show him that your dating again. That will drive me insane. When he sees that other guys want you, he'll get very jealous and want you back in a heartbeat.
The fact that you're showing him you're still available makes him feel like he can have you whenever he wants. That's why you should show him that if he doesn't make you his girl soon, you'll be somebody else's grl and I know for a fact he couldn't stand that idea...
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