I can't find a good guy for the LIFE of me

You're probably just exercising your right to choose, and that's okay. You've had bad luck finding the right guy, but you can snap out of it.
Maybe try looking for one in a different place for a change. The good ones are out there, if you look in the right places.

Okay, lovethebeach555 nailed the perfect answer, along with other Anonymous guy. Try not to worry to much about being single and smile like nothing is bothering you. When you are having a good time being you, others will be attracted to you for the want to share in your joy.

When people look worried, others think "Well, I might want to leave them alone in case they don't want to be bothered, they look kind of stressed."

And I don't know what movie this came from but the phrase *dance like no one is watching* I know you know it. ... So what's it stand for: Who cares, and shine Bright - and watch your audience pile up.

You'll find your guy, just worry about how you can have a good time - guys will be there, and watching, *so smile!*

Sometimes, the perfect girl is the hardest to get...even for the perfect guy. Guys are easily intimidated, if you are the nicest and easiest to meet woman on this planet, 90% of guys will have a very hard time confronting you for a date, etc... If your very attractive on top of that, 99% of all guys will be afraid of confronting you. And the guys that will blindly confront you in these cases may not be the type of guy your looking for.

On the other hand, this is where you have all the control, a girl who describes herself as you do, will get guys coming on to her if she wants the attention. You have to realize that you have a great deal of control, and at least showing a guy your interested is a great step. I have been asked out by women in my past and it was most flattering. I remember them to this day, at that time, I just was not interested to them. But I still feel like writing them a letter and thanking them for the offer to this day.

Wow, you sound pretty good!

If you're really as you say, you'll be an ideal spouse when the time comes. I think you're just too mature for your age. Most guys in your age group are looking to casually date, or they're looking for party girls. Judging by your current life status, you're looking for a long-term relationship. Keep searching, and in a few years, you're guaranteed to find someone who will appreciate the life you've built for yourself.

I think you have plenty of time to find the right person, I really like what the Anonymous guy said but would like to add one thing... If you try to hard to find the right guy you are putting yourself in danger of settling for the best available thing that comes along which 90% of the time isn't Mr. Right... It is a double edge sword because you are lonely and want somebody so bad that who you finally end up with might be worse than being single... You look like a beautiful girl with all the assets that any guy would find perfect... If you truly are what you listed then you would be an amazing catch...

The thing I love about hearing stories like yours, other than the fact that I don't wish loneliness upon anybody... Is the guy that is lucky enough to finally get you will be one of the luckiest guys on earth... In your writing I can tell that when you do find Mr. Right you will love him more and deeper than any love on earth and that is a magical thing... Best advice is be patient, you have many years to grow and continue to figure out the type of guy that you really want... Your idea of Mr. Right is going to change so much in the next few years... He is out there I promise, you just have to wait for your prince...

I can't say that there's anything listed about you that wouldn't make you almost the prefect girl for a TON of guys.

This will probably sound dumb, but my advice would be to relax a little. Don't worry so much about finding someone RIGHT NOW! I fully relate with not liking being single. I Abhor it. HATE IT! LOATHE IT! Yet it's what I have right now.

If you're getting out there and you're looking or trying then that's all you can do. You can't force life. Forcing life is like swimming against the current. All you get out of it is worn out.

And given your age you don't need to worry about rushing things. Enjoy your life as it is now. That way when you find that guy you want to be with it will only make your life that much better. You can't live your life waiting for that one thing to make it all better. You have to live your life as it comes and make it the best life you can. Even with all the ups and downs and all arounds. And when you're finally not trying to fight against life to form it into this pretty little mold of your dream life and you've decide to blow up the dam and let the river flow your prefect guy will be in a boat sailing down the river ready to sail you away.

Sounds a lot like myself, only the roles and some of the details are reversed. I know I'm a good guy, I just haven't found anybody that I'm compatible with and I'm too damn shy to date more frequently. But if it's any consolation, I'd definitely take you out if you didn't live so far away! :)

You are a beautiful woman and should not worry about stuff like that and you should wait for the right guy.

Wow, you sound so much like me (minus the dog). My best advice for you is patience. I know, it sucks, but when you meet the right guy,I bet it will be better than anything you ever dreamed.