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ForgottenGurl (Age:18 to 24)     When: 6 months ago
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I have been friends with this guy I met at a friend's wedding I was in in CA.

We talk now on the internet.. He's not always happy with what I'm dong like staying up for days on end and stuff.. Now question he gets sexual online.. and web cams with me and talks dirty to me..

I'm going to CA in June and he wants to meet up a few things have been talked about. one thing was he asked to cum inside me.. No condom.. I used to mess around with him back when I was in CA.. now he is taking it more.

I'm wondering if go back for 3 weeks like I planned.. and all this sex he wants to do.. will that get him to like me more then just a friend? Or can guys mess around that much with a friend and feel nothing after time?

He shows feeling now and cares a lot about me.. and I'm wondering if him seeing me in person again.. if it's a bad move to make?

Update: I don't want him to like me more, that's why I think I will hold back. Just too much drama in my life to go for some booty call across the us.. too dangerous    6 months ago

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johnsmith2116 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 4 months ago
Aside from possible health risks, if he is wanting to take you to bed already, it doesn't sound like he's interested in being a real boyfriend. So, if you didn't want a real boyfriend, it looks like you don't have to worry about that.
Have fun and be safe.
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GoldenKnight57 (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
I thinks its also a bad move he's probably just trying to get you down to CA just for a booty call I wouldn't do it. but then again I don't know him or how well you know him so its a tough call but I wouldn't do it.
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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
I think it's a bad move to make. Regardless of whether or not he gets attached, you don't really 'know' this guy or his history. I'd be careful.
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alovesj4eva (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Messing around sexually like that and since your not even in a relationship with him is scary, you could get sick i.e. STDS and that's something that won't go away esp pregnancy. Kissing would be the most I would do and don't give into his sexual wants just because you think he's going to like you more.
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Question Asker I don't want him to like me more. I have had bad relationships and now left with 3 kids. Im not feeling comfortable having sex with no condom. I know him eunff I have been friends with him but not well enuff as in lovers idea. I won't date again. dont want2 - 6 months ago
 
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