i want them gone.
How do I tell him without hurting his feelings?
Ok, I don't know if this would help...but I swear it worked for me quite well (although I didn't have a TON of acne). I tried proactive, over the counter stuff etc etc...never did much.
So I started putting Fresh lemon juice, straight on the face, squeezed from a lemon. Apparantly it is a natural antiseptic! This always clears up my acne, because the citric acid is a natural bacteria killer. It will likely sting at first, but if you wait it out, you see that you break out less and less...and that your skin texture gets smoother. It leaves like a taught/tight feeling in your skin at first, but it goes away overnight. plus its cheap! Just my own little discovery.
I'm pretty sure he knows he has zits. Every guy looks in the mirror once in a awhile. The problem is that we don't know wtf to use. We think water, and soup will work.
So just casually say you found this "cool/great" new product that did wonders for you,and you think it will do that same for him. Getting rid of those things will also raise his confidence.
Gosh...how to be delicate...A lot of girls want to help out their boyfriends in some way but are worried about offending! "He's overweight, how can I help without hurting his feelings?" "He has BO, what do I do?"
I'd suggest mentioning a product you use (or think would work for him) and saying something like "So I found this new acne cream that I REALLY LOVE! My skin is sooo much better since I started." if you're extra bold you could say " I have an extra tube, wanna try it sometime?"
if he's not dumb, he'll take the hint.
if he has spots I'm pretty sure he knows and there's not much he can do all the creams rarely work so theyll clear up in good time and there only spots they don't change him there just a flaw and we all have flaws
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There is no way you can tell him that without hurting his feelings. He knows he has them, he wants them gone more than you do I'm sure. Just imagine that the one thing you hate about yourself, he is thinking too. Learn to care about the person, not their outward appearance because sooner than you know it, you'll both be old and ugly.
I mean yea, this is a hard one but what you gotta do is let him know gently or get a close friend or relative to tell him without dimeing you out. This is the type of problem where there really is no way around it
i would casually say something like..."oh I just got this awesome new _______. I really love how it works, hey why don't you try it?" or something along those lines. haha
Bring it up for something you both can do, like irishoreo said
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