Recently this new man started working at my job, initially I thought he was very young around 19-22, because he is Korean and looks very young and dresses nicely, like True Religion and Ed Hardy stuff. So after abut two weeks of flirting and just getting along really well he finds out I'm 17 which threw him off cause I'm in college, I'm really mature I go to college and my friends range from 21-26. But anyways I found out he's 27 almost 28. After he found out he was quiet with me for about 3 days. Then he calls me one Saturday and asks me to go to a movie and dinner with him where he paid everything, picked me up, and took me home (this is a date correct? ) anyways things heated up a little more with us at work and anywhere. I feel a really deep connection with him we can look into each others eyes across the room and just have this deep feeling for one another. So he took me out again I mean it was windy so he put his jacket around me. He held my hand around the mall. He kept his arm around me asked me my opinion about things he was gonna buy. So I don't know what's going on. He text me sometimes. Calls sometimes. But I can go up to 8 days and not see or hear anything from him. WHAT IS GOING ON!? Somebody tell me what I am to this guy PLEASE. Thx for reading
Personally, you should slow this down until you gain a few years. A serious relationship between you at 17 and a man at 28+ is frowned upon in our conservative society. Not illegal, just not acceptable. Sure you can say "each to their own" but people will make your lives miserable more so about the age gap than the racial thing(which is another unfortunate problem in this world).
He's playing it safe by calling on an irregular basis so that things are not moving too fast. You may feel that you are mature but in fact, most people still see you as a kid. He's doing the best he can under the circumstances not to have this whole thing blow up on you with a fast sex-fling or whatever. I am happy for you that you have found a good man, but I feel this one my lead to a disaster. If you were a bit older, I would encourage you to get serious with him.
My apologies, surely this is not what you wanted to hear. But too many times, such a relationship of this age disparity does not work out. I wish the best for you
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