A couple weeks ago I met this guy at a party and we really hit it off. We recently had our first date and after a few drinks ended up making out for an hour at his apartment. We had a lot of fun on the actual date and there was a lot of chemistry but I'm afraid I may have come off a little easy. Before the date he was really making an effort to go on an actual date with me by calling/texting...but since that night he's only messaged me on facebook saying we should try to meet up sometime.
Has he lost interest? Do you think he only sees me as a girl he can hook up with now? If I do see him again, what can I do to undo the damage, if there even is any?
Sorry, I think you might be right and you came off as too easy. That doesn't mean he isn't interested, but it could change the way he interacts with you. He probably just thinks that he doesn't have to try as hard now.
Next time he says he wants to meet up sometime say something like "I would love to, ask me out on a date!" Try to make it a joke and use a smiley emoticon. :)
Just text him or write on his facebook that you'd want to hang out this coming weekend. It doesn't hurt to ask him out. Guys like it when a girl advances like that. If he doesn't reply and/or he says no, then it's best to just move on. I don't think you did anything wrong at all though.
As long as your not giving up sex within a week, then you are never viewed as "easy" in a guy's mind. The only way your ever easy is if you give it up, that's it.
I don't think he has lost interest, but you need to find out if he is interested in you, or just wants to use you for his pleasure. So if you really like him, the next few times you hang out with him, don't give him anything more than a little kiss, then see how he starts acting towards you and in time you should be able to tell what he wants out of you
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