Ok so I went on the first date with a girl that I met at starbucks. We went and had some pasta at a sorta small restaurant. We got a table out side. We ordered almost the same thing. After that we went an watch a movie.
It was action. I know I know. But as we where getting tickets I ask if that was the one and she said yes. We watched the movie talked a little bit. Had some laughed. After the movie was over we where just sitting there not saying much, so I asked her if she wanted to get ice cream she said yes so we get there got are ice cream and sit down on a bench out side and talk for a little bit longer.
I was going to text her that night but my friend said not to because it would sound to clingy. So I text her the next day, I said I had fun. And she replied I had a lot of fun. My question is what would be a good second date or do you have any advice. Thanks
Update: Ok so tonight she came over to my place. My roommate was here to. Not problem she knows him from coffee house to. So he's playing GH3 and then we start listening to music and where talking then we put in a movie and my roommate goes to bed so where watching
9 months ago
Update: A movie and were talking and she is texting a friend or something. After the movie I ask her if she would like me to walk her home since she live in the next apartments over. Does this count as a date and was that corny thin to ask her.
9 months ago
Ask her if she'd like to see you a second time, and if so, what she would like to do. Girls like it when you ask about their interests, and she will enjoy being around you knowing that you care about what she likes to do.
While on the first date any interest you found about this girl you should try to make a second date out of it. That makes the second date so much fun I mean who doesn't like doing something they love to do. Oh by the way good idea not to text her the same night. Good luck man!
Don't fret. Dating isn't about chalking up how many dates you had, whether you got to first, second or third base. It is about enjoying the company of the other individual and spending more time with them because you make each other feel all warm and cozy inside.
As for another date, you've talked to her so you probably have an idea of what some of her likes and dislikes are now so get the old noggin' cranked up and find some places that she may find interesting around you. Perhaps a museum, stroll through a beautiful park, book store to look at her favorite painters, hobbies, etc. Grab a bite to eat, cook her a meal, go for a picnic, and so on.
Girls like it when you show two simple traits, a) you've listened to them and b) you've taken some initiative. So if a girl sees that you can actually put (a) and (b) together they instantly place you up higher on the ladder of evolution. Somewhere above chimp and many of the other guys they went out with which is extra points. :)
All kidding aside, if you both like each other then pretty much anything will work as another date because it is really the company that matters and not the surrounding.
Thanks. I like her but I think she likes me not shore. We watch a movie to night with some friends. Be for she got here her friend asked me so what's going on with you and her. - 8 months ago
Now you need to ask her out again and find out what you have in common. What you both enjoy doing. After you find this out, then you can plan more dates. The more dates you have, the more the relationship develops, and that's what you are looking for. Before you know it, you have a girlfriend! And it goes on and on! Or you take her out a few times, and one or both of you realize there really isn't anything there. Either way, you have to spend time with her to find this out. As for your next date, if you don't know what to do, just ask her out to dinner again. To a different restaurant. The purpose is to get her alone and talk to her. Anything you do to achieve that, is what you want! Don't overanalyze here, just "go with the flow"! Do what feels right. Don't try to make it happen, just let it happen! Good luck. Let us know how its going!
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