Prom is coming up and I really want a date. I don't have a boyfriend, but there is a guy I like and I think he likes me too (or at least he is aware of my existence haha). I can tell that we both try to make friendly conversation with each other, but we're both really shy when in comes to flirting. Help! How do you flirt and how can I let him know that I want him to ask me to Prom w/o being too obvious?
If he's your boyfriend, then this is a no brainer; since he isn't, then why would you want to go to prom anyways? Why don't you just ask him what he's up to. And try to do something with the guy BEFORE prom. Then after hanging out with him at least twice and immediately AFTER kissing him, ask him he would take you to prom.
Oh yes the Prom, well my advice is going to be based on my experiences, which is here it comes -Go tell him that you want to go to prom with him! You should never fear from what you really want in this life, because even if he says no, it is better than not ever knowing what would he say! One of you has to take the plunge and since you can control your actions I would say do it. It really gets better after the first rush when you are approaching the person and you can hear your heartbeat. Don't get discouraged or runaway!Jump! And feel great about it! Plus I think women who are go-getters are always one step ahead of the popular ones! (they often get what they want hand delivered to them)
Hmm, I've never thought about it that way before. I agree, I shouldn't be afraid of trying to get what I want. How do you think I should ask? Because I've asked a guy out to a dance before, but I worded it weirdly and it was just awkward! - 5 months ago
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I was in your situation for my senior prom. My advice? Ask -him- to prom! Even if he doesn't want to go with you, he'll probably be flattered that you liked him enough to ask. And if you don't ask, you might never know; he could feel the same way as you, but you're both too afraid to do anything. Wouldn't you rather at least know? I know I did. And things worked out pretty well for me in the end. :)
the girl that I'm going to prom with has been one of my best friends for many years and we always hang out and get along and stuff. we are basically...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Go out to get something to eat, somewhere not to loud, but not to boring, so I can actually get to know the person through conversation, get to know : their interests, hobbies, intentions, what do they look for in a girl. then maybe after, when its getting later, walk through the park, or swing on swings at the park or something. & talk about anything .and id wear, nice jeans,shirt, and shoes
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
My date will know, that I'm smart, and that I'm hilarious. He will know I'm the same same as some other girls, and I won't do anything to impress him and that I like to smile(: & be myself completely, he will know my hobbies, what I like in a guy, and interests,etc.
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