I met a guy on okcupid. Its a dating site but I suppose you can also find friends there. I found a guy who was listed as "single" but on his profile his relationship status said "unknown" and he said he was only looking for friends. He told me he had a girlfriend and had simply not updated his profile. I misunderstood at first but agreed to meet him as friends anyway, since we seemed to click.
I met him the other day and we had what felt to me like a date. We had dinner at a restaurant and he was flirty. I caught him checking me out and he made some sexy jokes here and there. At the end, he initiated a hug and said that we should meet again. He even made a plan about what we could do.
Now I'm confused. Is he really only looking for friends? Is he unhappy with his girlfriend and looking for something else or is he just using me for some fun? The trouble is if he wasn't in a relationship, I would totally go for him. We have loads of chemistry and I think he's amazing. What should I do?
Who signs up for a dating website to only make friends when everyone else is looking to date? o_O
Just from what you said about it, it sounds like he might be unhappy with his current girlfriend and might want to have someone on the side. Of course, I don't know him or his situation, so it's up to you to find all that out, if you really want to go for this guy.
You're over-thinking this. First of all, he probably doesn't want to "creep you out" by being like... hey, let's date. He's afraid that'd turn you off. Also, maybe he'll meet someone on there that he really just wants to be friends with. He probably wouldn't exclude that possibility either. The idea of him cheating and all that stuff... I think it's pretty far fetched. You should probably get to know him and establish your relationship early, whether it be friends or dating. At this point it's pretty much up to you two. And the word "two" always means the girl. How many times do I have to tell you people... "we're guys!" Remember that show "Home Improvement"? Brad asks "how will I know if I'm in love?" Tim replies "She'll tell you."
i'm highly doubting that. if he wants to make friends (and I assume he's a grown adult) well he can make friends like in his work place or to clubs he goes to or other camp/ bbq outings whatever but a dating site? no, it sounds like he's wanting a friends with benefits or a 'friend' like a casual no strings attached. I certainly have a red flag going off in my mind if a guy says he talks to a bunch of girls and some of them are sending him sexy messages, I highly doubt that's JUST friends
he's obviously hiding some things. you won't want to have any sh*t to deal with in the future. best to just leave him be, if not tell him what's on your mind. I will never waste my time on someone who's behaving mysteriously like he is.
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