I really like one of my best girl friends roommates (Girl A) but the problem is that she doesn't ever really come out to bars and parties and things like that. I think she is really pretty, and she is a lot of fun to be around but I never see her. We talked a few nights ago for the first time in about a month and I think she seemed at least fairly attentive and interested, but she left before I could get her number.
I have talked to my friend (Girl B) about the girl I like and she didn't really give me much help. I don't know if that was a sign to stay away from the girl I like or be more persistent. Anyways I want to pursue this girl regardless so how can I get her to come out more?
You should treat her as a friend more and get to know her and everything. but if the girl that you think is really pretty, and think that she would come back...give her some time alone and then talk to her and tell her how her life is going, make her feel comfortable around, make her feel welcome. but if you want her to come out more, you should always get to know her and make her feel more friendlier around you and see how she would react around you, you should feel more comfortable around her and the same thing that she should do around you.... if she doesn't really likes you in any ways, just forget and there are more girls out there in the real world, to find more attractive and really thinks that she's pretty and all...but don't worry I think there's a girl out there in the real world, searching for the right guy (you)....but don't let anyone take away you dreams and create it your self.
I would suggest hanging around a bit more, invite yourself over, or ask girl b if she minds' you hanging out. Since she's the roommate the more time you spend in the vicinity of them both the more you can get to know the girl. Also a visit is a possible chance to run into her and ask for her number... As for girl b, did she hesitate to help you or did she just not think you two -you and girl a- would be good together? because if she hesitate their may be some feelings there?...
I talked with another one of her friends tonight and she told me that girl A was wearing something a little ridiculous (not slutty or anything) out at the bars. I responded by saying that was weird but also really hot. My friend then told me that maybe I should ask her to wear it again for me sometime and then she laughed a little. What do you think about that? - 9 months ago
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THAT girl sounds like she sees that you like girl A and seems to want to help by giving you that playful compliment to tell girl A. Have you spoken/ seen girl A since before? - 9 months ago
Try to find out first where she is into . If she's not going out she maybe does other stuff (more interesting things probably:) - If you know what keeps her busy then you maybe know how to approach her or to let her go out more .
Well she might not be into bars or parties. See if she wants to get some coffee or maybe some ice cream. Or if you see he during the day sometime see if she wants to go get some food. Just some ideas for you and good luck
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