My Girlfriend dumped me from a 3 years relationship . She was my first and all . We've been working on getting back together for about a month now and we're taking things slow BUT there's another girl in my radar that's been trying to get with me for a min . She wanted to be my friends with benefits . I'm a single man now, but I still have some feelings for my EX . What should I do in this situation ?
A)Hit it and quit it with telling my EX while Working on the relationship B)Tell the Other girl to leave me alone C)Leave my EX alone and enjoy the single life D)Forget the both of them .
All of those options are valid, and the choice is yours . But let's theorize about the outcomes of each case:
A . ) (By "hit it and quit it" I'm assuming you're talking about a one-night stand . ) Once your ex finds out, she probably won't take you back . The other girl doesn't want a long-term relationship with you . Possibility for lasting success: 0% .
B . ) Either you get back together with your ex and it works, you get back together but it doesn't work, or you decide not to get back together . Possibility for lasting success: 33% .
See . ) (Since this is similar to D, I'm assuming you mean that you'd become friends with benefits with the other girl . ) The long-term relationship with your ex is over, but you avoid new relationships because friends-with-benefits becomes its own relationship . One or both of you end up jealous and the experience leaves you jaded about relationships . Possibility for lasting success: 0% .
D . ) You avoid two potentially bad relationships, but at least one of them could have turned out well . It's up to you to play the odds and find someone else . Possibility for lasting success: ? % (unable to determine) .
Tough choices, but if you give yourself time to think and figure things out without making unnecessary mistakes, you'll pick the right one .
I think you should do what you think is best for you, but I will you give you my opinion .
If I were you I would move on from your ex, because if she dumped you before, what's stopping her from doing it again ? There was obviously something wrong in your relationship that you had with her . That's why it failed . No matter what the reason is, you need to find someone new . So you need to be just friends with her, not friends with benefits but just a hello or goodbye kinda of thing .
This new girl that's been trying to get you, she seems like a girl just to have fun with, nothing serious . I don't know this girl so if I were you, I would just have fun with her and see where it leads to .
Trust me, you don't want the single life . Its good and all, but you still want those feelings that you had if you were in a relationship .
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