OK, so I know this girl who I like, and her little sister, who is 11, found these rocks and put my name on them with red glitter around it and gave them to the girl I like. When she found them, she got all upset and went into her room for a while. I also found a "best friend list" on her iPod and I was at the top. The question is do you think that the little sister knew the girl I like liked me, or was she just trying to be annoying and get attention.
Update: I have tried bringing up the rocks numerous times, and I get the answer of "no, I won't tell you. " But both of them say that I will get really mad if they tell me.
9 months ago
Update: When I ask her about the rocks, it is not serious at all, she just says, "I won't tell you" and moves on. Our relationship has not changed after the rocks at all. By the way, in the end, they got crushed. I have known her for about 3 months.
9 months ago
I think it is safe to say that the rocks are a metaphor to what actually happened to you "crushed" anyways in the end. She may denying her own feelings -- but she needs to come around on her own. Good thing you brought up the rocks, but, you got to ask her what she "won't" tell you - if anything, make it humorous. Tell her she has to tell what the rocks were all about and in exchange you will tell her something about yourself that no one else knows. Maybe bring this up in a causal situation - line a to movie, walking together down the street etc. Etc. This should break the 'trust'/'reveal' factor between you two. That is what you both need to do - let that guard down. You got to let her know that she can tell you -- and in exchange you can tell her some meaningful about yourself. 3 months is a short time to know someone -- but, it sounds like just in this short amount of time you have grown to like her. Let her know that -- in specific words what attracts you to her. Pay her a compliment ever so often. And slowly but surely she will let that guard down. Especially if you tell her something about yourself that is truthful, insightful, and revealing. Hope that helps out a little.
Wow! That is strange. Perhaps at some point she did like you --- but doesn't feel the same way anymore. What is your relationship since you asked her about the glitter rocks? - Do you feel it has changed? - I wish I knew more about your previous situation with this girl (that way my answer would be a little more accurate). The best thing to ask yourself, at least a this point, is to ask yourself if you want to be this girl. Genuinely, deep down in your heart. Sometimes confirmation that someone likes us, is a sort of obligation that you should like them back. Ask herself, throughout this all, would you still want to be with her? - Be honest with yourself. I hope this helps a bit.
Kids have away of giving away all the secrets. Yes, sounds like big sister has been bringing you up to either family, or friends. And yes, younger sister has picked up on it. I think she over-reacted a little bit (maybe she was angry that the secret came out like that) --I think you should jokingly bring up the glitter rocks again. "so yeah was those glitter rocks - did they have some truth to them", honestly if she smiles back, yes it is so obvious that she likes you. I think you should bring up the glitter rocks in a subtle and clever sort of way. As for you being at the top of iPod friend's list - uh, I wouldn't read into that too much. Besides, sounds like little sister let the secrets out of the bag anyway! Yes, next time you and this girl are alone together or if you get a couple minutes alone bring up the rocks. Hmmmm so, (insert girl's name) did those glitter rocks have some truth to them? - Cause, seriously I hope they did (okay that part is optional). But anyways, yes, girl has a thing for you :)
If she WAS trying to be annoying, she could have put ANYONE;s name. I am a little sister and the best way for em to annoy my older sister is to tease her using the guy she likes. It is weird how our mind works, we get all upset when someone teases us about the guy we like. Like if someone says oh I bet you like so and so and even though I do I get mad and say something like "he is so gross. " So yes she probably does like you and her sister probably either knew that from snooping in a journal or diary or eavesdropping on phone calls (like I did).
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