and asked about his life, started a convo, we talked, mostly about school and stuff, asking each other how are you what's going on... and in class we always have staring competitions and smile...blush nervously as well...but he's confusing me, because sometimes he just leaves class and won't stay to talk, he's not dieing to talk to me or get my number, he's not asking me out, he's not giving me a huge sign except for making eye contact and staring at me all day long. he's not even being approachable so I can may be ask him out...i don't know we used to be acquaintances/friends so its not like were strangers...theres definitely a sexual tension...and chemistry, but I wanna be with him. I do know he is stressed from school and is always tired from exams. I guess he doesn't want a relationship?
Im kind of in that situation. I get mixed signals so I don't know. I feel that if she flirted more and chased me more prob showed a bit more interest and opend up more id ask her out. I'm gonna ask her out anyway its just its delayed because she acts like she is not that interested so I'm hesitent about it. That's a bit of a turn off. But if A guy likes you I suppose he would risk getting turned down or the dreadful lets just be friends speech. No guy wants to hear that unless he is gay!
Hes well into you by the sounds of things. It also sounds like he's playing things cool. He's showing you he's into you but not being overly in your face. He's smart or at least it looks like he's really trying for you IMO.
I think he will want a relationship, you don't stare at a girl unless your into her. He may be too shy or not know how to approch you. If your in email contact, you could say, "so, are you ever going to ask me out or what? lol" and see what he says.
That give him the "in" he might need to be confident to ask you out or whatever.
Also, ask about him, find out who he is. Will help you understand wether its him being shy, if he's got other agendas or doesn't like you.
Thank you so much, I really appreciate it, most people don't answer these type of questions anymore 'does he like me' lol I'm glad you took the time!
youre right, I guess I need to be even more obvious than I had thought, its just that I'm shy too and afraid of rejection just as him, probably even more, he has a lot of female buds and is easily social, but he can be shy around me at times I'm just not certain, I however don't talk much to boys and yea I'm in my own bubble kinda thing.... - 5 months ago
1. He could be the shy type. If this is the case, confronting him about it will get you a straight answer, preferably in private where he'll feel more comfortable discussing it with you.
2. He might just not be interested in a relationship. If that's the case, it's unlikely there's anything you can do to change his mind at this time, but if you keep at it, then when the time comes when he decides he's ready for a relationship, he may turn to you first. This is assuming you want him enough to wait for him.
If I were in your situation, I'd just ask him directly about these things. Most guys prefer a straight one-on-one talk, and find it much easier to deal with than trying to be subtle about it. What's the worst that could happen anyway? More likely than not he'll be flattered if you tell him how you feel.
Thank you! terrific answer! I'm not sue if he's shy, because he's really social sometimes and has a lot of female friends and best friends, and he seems confident enough to stare at me without blinking or looking away, he also is a bit cocky but not in a terrible way...
i think #2 is right...i agree with you =[ but I believe I've waited long enough...
i want to confront him I'm just afraid of rejection....im quite insecure and being rejected will hurt me alot - 5 months ago
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That's understandable, it's hard to get over the fear of rejection, but think of it this way: If a guy you didn't like asked you out and you rejected them, you'd most likely tell them in a respectable way as to not hurt them. This is because humans are naturally empathetic of other humans. He's not gonna think any less of you than he did before if you ask him about it. - 5 months ago
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