Well like the other guys here, confidence is always the best. I'm not saying I want a girl who is so confident that she's arrogant. It's good if she's sure about herself which makes her attractiveness rise. So yeah, a little confidence can go a long way.
Confidence is nice. but it would be total bullshit for any man to say that they don't have insecurities of their own. I don't mind if a woman has a few hang ups, but at some point these issues should be addressed and resolved in a positive manner between you and your partner.
Confidence or insecurity, well I read the last report that 6/10 are not happy with there bodies, along with 1/5 women are assaulted before age 16 by someone they know, chances are 80% of the women out there have to check in their luggage at the airport, because they have a lot of bags (hint hint) I don't care what you tell me, insecurities don't just go away, so guys learn to deal with their insecurities
If getting into a relationship is all about knowing her, better she feels secure bout herself; at least she won't virtually die down when you are sand bagging her with ur boring quips ;-)
This is a "depends" kind of answer. Often times men love to feel that they are that knight in shining armor wisping down to rescue the poor helpless damsel in distress. It is good for our egos. But at other times, we don't exactly want to be hooked up with someone from Barney's playhouse that still needs her nose wiped by mommy. My best suggestion is to be yourself. But don't be scared to call on your man in times of crisis. We like being the hero from time to time.
You can never go wrong if you believe and are honest with yourself in what your doing. This goes for everything. Confidence without pushiness. I didn't realize how funny that sounded until I typed it. It was not meant to be mean.
Well, insecure girls can get annoying. It just gets really annoying very fast when a girl is constantly looking for reassurance. Do you think I'm fat? Am I good enough? BLA BLA it just gets old very fast and I'm sure you can understand why.
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Being to secure/confident is a turn off too, it can come off to some guys as intimidating/selfish/stuck on your selfish. Which I know myself I've encountered this. Most will get quiet, or just not approach either or if to one extreme or the other. Because it just makes it a higher risk of rejection. Unless the guy is that way, and enjoys girls like that. Some do? Why I DUNNO? Maybe it's cause they themselves are that way and they therefore have commonality.
I agree that sounds good I was just wondering because depending on my mood I think I am way over confidence and sometimes I just rag on myself lol but I agree with what you said lol thanks - 9 months ago
You know I am an absolute believer of having confidence within yourself. But when I talk about confidence, I don't mean something that is "put on", "fake" or "bitchy".
I'm talking about really understanding who you are as a person. Your strengths, your weaknesses and the whole package. Knowing things about yourself that may be good that may be bad . and being ok with that.
I believe that having real confidence . allows you to be vulnerable in ways that insecure girls cannot. N I truly believe that no guy wants a girl who just complains about how she looks, if her butt is big and feels that she unworthy of love and attention.
Well guys like girls who are confident but you can be insecure but you must always remember that guys like girls really with confidence because it shows they believe in them self. Last but not least you don't want to be to confident or a tease cause if you are they might get turned off by that because they will think you think that it's all about you an that your all that.
The only time a guy would want an insecure girl is so he can use and abuse her. All those women in abusive relationships sure as hell aren't confident. Guys don't really like girls that are stuck on themselves and think they are better than everyone, but you should be secure and love yourself. If you don't, who will?
Confidence is everything! If my guy didn't like himself, why should I like him? There's a saying that goes something like, you have to love yourself before you can love anyone else. More than true. If you don't know how to love yourself and be okay with you, it's gonna be tough for anyone else to really truly love you.
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