When you see a guy (or a girl) you find (really) attractive in an approachable place (cafe, concert, party, things like that), should you always at least try to go for it (getting his/her number or something)?
I'm asking this questions because I'm a love-at-first-sight kind of girl and unfortunately find myself attracted to few people.
Sure why not? go for it and see how it things work out if you do indeed decide to try and have something more if you do indeed hook up... you'll never know if he was the right one if you don't take that first step.
I always love a challenge picking up women at any place, like when they are with their parents, at church, at a funeral or wake. I see we have another romantic on this site
Of course you should, rather than ogle at him/her and then being made a spectacle of yourself. Its much better if you go right up to them and talk. At least if there has to be any embarrassment caused, now the person has a name attached to it ;-)
But a genuine suggestion. It saves you dying of nervous rack later in the day thinking what you could have done.
I go for it like 75 percent of the time and it has never, ever worked out... but I still do it anyway because you never know! Also, it builds strength and courage in general to do something like that. Even if you get shot down, you're more confident than you were before you made that move.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I usually ask the girl where she wants to go and try to create something based on that. Typical stuff, dinner, maybe a movie, bowling. Ideally I would give her a short kiss goodnight if things went well but that's the most. I wouldn't push for too much more.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
I would tell her about my job and a little bit about my family to give her an idea of my background. I would hope she would think I am a genuine and caring person.
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