Ok so I asked out this girl yesterday and we hung out after school for a few hours and chatted over tea (were European so no coffee). We had a nice chat, no awkward moments, no geeky chats and it all went extremely smooth. But I talked to her friend today and she tells me that the girl I asked out doesn't know how she feels about me. I felt the same way after the date and I didn't know if I liked her or not (in all honesty neither of us are so attractive that were falling at each others heels) I've come to terms with the fact that she's a wonderful girl and I do like her and I'm thinking she's leaning the same direction I am (talked to her today and felt a little chemistry) But I have a feeling that I need to tip the scales a little more in my favor.
Is there anything I can do right now that can possibly make her like me when she's right on the borderline? Without being too drastic or too sketchy? She's a really nice girl and I think we have the ability to form a decent relationship but I have a feeling that nothing will get formed if I don't give her a little nudge in the right direction.
No you cannot do anything more to 'tip the scales'. You just hung out yesterday, sometime it takes longer for people to go 'threw the feelings' to come to a conclusion to how they feel about someone. You have quickly made up your mind about this girl, perhaps she needs a little more time to reflect. The best thing to do is not to rush her (ie call her right away, e-mail/IM text her etc). Do let her know that you had a really great time with her and it would be awesome if you could hang out sometime when she gets the chance. Try to let her know in person (that way you can read her emotions/body language more) to assess if she feels the same way. You don't want to be too aggressive or needy. Let her assess the situation. It is excellent that you already know how you feel about her. Now, let her do the same.
Ya. She's really good at conversations/etc so I completely forgot that this was probably one of the only "dates" (for the sake of a name) that she's ever been on. I realized I was expecting a little too much of her. She's probably going through a lot right now so I agree more time is needed for her. I guess ill just try and show her what a great guy I am for the time being. - 5 months ago
First of all No middle man or women! only one that can tell you how she feels is the women herself. as for tip the favor, well you got to just be yourself, enjoy every time you go out. To a women, a lady, is to spend her time with someone who brings something extra to the table that already isn't on the menu. In other words, get to know her, communicate, and go with the attitude, "whats the worst can happen? " you become really good friends. Always think positive. And let things spell out for you as naturally as any relationship should be. :) hope that helps and good luck.
If I were you, I would talk to that same friend of hers and find out what are her likes and dislikes. Find out something from her friend that you don't know and use that to your advantage in trying to get her to like you more, enough so that she would want to date you. Good luck-:)
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