OK this guy Cade (I was obsessed with him): I told him that I liked him in about 10 love letters (wrong thing to do) anyway I told him how I felt (had to take a chance) so in them they said that I love you and if we could, could we date? Then he never spoke to me for 2 weeks or 2 months and then I talked to cade over mxit on a friend's phone and then cade said: I just want us to be good friends nothing more nothing less so then 3 days after that we started talking and hugging (he gave the softest hugs ever and the cutest winks and smiles) so then I stopped writing letters to him and we came a bit closer to each other but never really talked to each other because I was / still am shy.and then without coming to get his report he left just like that (2 days after the farewell / Prom.(I'm still sad about that) I remember every hug , wink he gave me and every song he used to sing and the jokes he used to tel (tears coming back that's how much I miss him) ( the year 2008)
There is this other guy Gerhard: we knew each other after the second term and then we always talked on mxit from about 2 till 5 in the afternoon everyday so he also left like cade and then in the second term I told him I liked him and he never believed me so then I asked him if we could try dating and we did but it was only over mxit because he was to far from where I live and what made me sad was that I only dated him because his current gilfriend was cheating on him (my friend Dessere was dating Gehard) and when I heard that she had another boyfriend Max, I tried to make it easy but with the time I spent with him I actually fell in love with him and then there were moments that I felt all alone and then I said it wouldn't work out so then we broke up and he found a new girlfriend Clarissa (he never told me he had a girlfriend or that he had moved)
So here is the problem: Cade doesn't want anything to do with me but I'm going to the same school as both of them next year
SO IF THERE IS ANY ADVICE YOU CAN GIVE ME I WOULD APPRECIATE IT SO MUCH
how do you know cade wants nothing to do with you? you said you guys got pretty close near the end of school before he just took off, nd as for gehard his girlfriend cheated on him he cheated on is girlfriend and you said you fell in love with him... but why would you break up with him for it?
The reason I broke up with him is because I just wasn't ready for a realationship at that time and we just NEVER say eachother - 4 days ago
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K, so to clear things up you are seriously interested in the both of them, you will be going to school with both of them. All you can do at this point is keep calm and figure out whether or not you can chose one.. and if you do try to see them a little more not clingy like every f***ing day but 2 or 3 times a week seeing them everyday drives them to want to spend time apart, and being apart makes them want to see you but all in all that's what will keep you with one ofem... choose wisely. - 3 days ago
I think you are too hungry for love. Remember this: In this game, the hungry don't get fed.
Love is supposed to grow slowly. Guys need to get to know you well. They are always worried that you would become clingy, would start stalking them or get too emotional nd hysterical.
Any way, you can not change yourself by just wishing it.
Advice: Don't watch the TV shows which show love and romance. Stop fantasizing Take up a sport or go to gym or start jogging to use up your energy. Focus on school and work. Wait for another two years before seeking love.
i wouldn't worry about it too much. there are other people out there. and I know how it feels to break up with a person who you like. its hard but I slowly got over it and I still talk to them today so I know that they are not angry with me lol. I would talk to them. nothing special...just a normal "whats going on..." to find out if they still want to be friends with you. what is mxit by the way?
MXit IM connects you to a virtual universe of free, fun self-expression. MXit IM is a next generation mobile instant messenger and social networking software application that allows you to chat anywhere on earth from your mobile or PC for free. You can connect with your Yahoo, ICQ, Google Talk, AIM, or Windows Live Messenger contacts. Communication has never been easier! - 2 months ago
Get over them both, and while your at it; stop being a creep. The letter thing, really, it's to much, and if a guy wants to be with you, he'll make it happen. Stop living in the fantasy world, just because you guys get close as friends doesn't mean you'll end up together. And, IM relationships are bogus, and you should be ashamed that you even helped a guy cheat [on your friend no less, even if she was cheating on him.] So, my advice... Never say I love you again unless you mean it. [There's no such thing as love at first sight...Go look up the words Lust: Infatuation: Obsession: ]
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