I am attracted to a guy in one of my lectures, and I know the attraction is mutual. But I'm a bit on the shy side, meaning I can carry on a conversation with a guy but when I find myself interested in a particular guy I don't know what to do. Just recently, we were assigned to work on a group presentation together, and I would love to get to know him more "outside" the classroom. He had a difficult time keeping eye contact, and just couldn't stop smiling when taking my number down. I thought it was so adorable, and for once a guy is more shy than I am.
How can I have him call me after our project is complete?
Update: [ thanks for the advice! One more thing, besides the physical attraction how would I know if he is genuinely interested in getting to know me? ]
4 months ago
Before the project ends, you should casually ask him to join you for lunch, or coffee. Something that is not so heavy and that you could be matter of fact like, hey, I'm going down to get some coffee, want to join me? Once you do that when the project is going on, once the project ends, it will be easier to hang out.
When you are together and working on your project, after an hour or two, say you're bored and you should both take a little time out to relax. If you do that and go sit somewhere else, or clear the stuff you're working on away, make sure you have something to talk about. Like, you could talk about something that's happened in school, or if you are both a good friend of someone. You could talk about that. Or if you wanted to be bold (which is hard for us shy girls, but sometimes we just gotta be confident! ) you could both be working on the project and say you brought over a movie to watch after you've finished, or when YOU decide you should both take a break! If you put a movie on and you're sitting next to him, you could keep looking at him and just smile until he looks at you. Then just go for it and kiss him. You said that the feeling's mutual and maybe he's just to shy in case he gets rejected off you. Just gently kiss him and make it very sweet :) I hope this helped, and if you possibly want to know more, talk to me and I'll try help you as best I can :) Good luck! X
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