I known this guy since h. S and we use to play basketball every day after school. And when we graduated he mentioned he had a crush on me, and we both went our separate ways to collage. No we bumped into each other and working withing the same circle. And he has been flirting with me examples:his god daughter was at the event and needed a diaper change and I asked him what should I do and he replied that I needed to learn if we were going to have kids together. Then after the event we went out to dinner with a married couple and he had his arm on my chair at all times. They we went to a bar and he kept asking me if ii could give him a massage or back rum. He kept grabbing my hand and placing it on his back. As a hint. He then lost his phone and the next day he looks at me with a sexy look and tell me how is he suppose to call me if he doesn't have his phone. When he found his phone I was the first person to call. I'm a bit confuse because he was my basketball buddy and now I think I'm the one with the crush but I'm not sure if he is still interested.
So technically just because he's at a bar/club doesn't mean he's searching for girls. That may not be his intentions at all, he knows that some are there obviously, he'd be stupid to think there wouldn't be, but no guy goes into a club EXPECTING to hook up with some girl. Just improbable and setting himself up for possible disappointment/hurt if he'd think that way. We just go to have fun, have a good time and if a girl is interested cool if not sometimes that's cool too, cause we may just not even be in the mood to converse with a female we don't know. Maybe we had that crappy of a day that we feel where better off with our friends or just chillin at the bar of the club alone. So I guess hey there's a hint for some ladies on how to snag a guy at the bar. Most often times, he's probably single, has no g/f and if he came with somebody she probably ditched him, or maybe he just had such a crappy day that human contact is very difficult for him. Although if you approach him properly, positively, you probably stand a good chance of hitting it off with him.
Well, in my opinion Ya, guys don't mention having kids with a girl/women, if they don't like them.
That's my. 02. Least I know I never would less I didn't want to.
Although it does sound as if he wants sex from you as well, so who knows he may want just sex, or both a relationship with it, which is what it sounds like to me, or else he wouldn't have made the joke about having kids together.
Ok. In h. S he was the one with the crush and it has been 9 years and now he seems to be flirty but I guess it must be a sex thing. Good to know before I make a fool of myself and tell him I now have the crush. Lmao! - 8 months ago
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Not entirely he could very much still want you emotionally, I know there are girls that I had a crush on in 8th grade that I still wouldn't mind being with literally, as well as sexually. By literally I mean in a potential relationship, or in one. Although it wouldn't ever happen least not to me I have horrible luck. Although it doesn't mean I wouldn't want such a thing, just as he might want the same who knows, maybe that's why he's flirting don't assume take your time and figure it out. - 7 months ago
He sure sounds interested to me, I think you should ask him out. I mean just say what you said here tell him how he was the one with the crush in high school and now you think you're the one with the crush. It's sexy and sweet, I say give it a try.
Oh it sure sounds like he is interested. Buddy's may flirt but since you know he had a crush on you in the past, it seems more like sexual flirting than friend flirting. A friend at a bar would be checking out other girls and not want you to be too close because you would scare away other potential girls. Plus he seems to be touching you a lot and wanting you to touch him. Sure sounds like flirting to me!
I'm glad you said that because we went out to the bar with his best friend and that was were he was asking me to massage/rum his lower back and then he would go talk to girls. lol. we have been friends for a long time we just haven't spent any time chilling because after hs came collage so we went our separate ways, anyway there was a girl at the bar and she was dancing and joking around I told him to go and talk to her and he broke into a philosophy on how he don't go to the clubs to meet woman. - 8 months ago
That could be very true though so watch it. Some guys don't go to the bar to meet women, they just go to enjoy the music the fun, the alcohol, to bs, to catch up on things. Some may go and see pretty girls and not be remotely up for even attempting, it's sometimes more fun for a guy to just go and maybe glance at a girl or two and then leave rather than risk possible rejection etc, and sometimes I know when I'm in a pissy mood i'll go to a club/bar just to be around happier people to cheer up.. - 7 months ago
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