So about a month ago I was in a chat room and I met this guy. He was totally cool, he wasn't a perv. Or anything, we just talked. The first night I met him we talked for 3 hours! We talked about everything and got to know each other. We talked about every night on yahoo messenger and we both admitted we were falling for each other. We exchanged pictures to prove we weren't a creepy stalker or something like that. Trust me, he was real because we talked on a web cam once just to be sure he was really who he said he was. Anyways, this last week neither of us have been getting online. I checked maybe once a day and he was never on and once I waited for awhile. I was sick and busy. So yesterday I tried e-mailing him. We sent pictures through e-mail so I had his e-mail address. I got a message back saying that that user discontinued or disabled his account! Why would he do that?! I know we both liked each other for real. How am I supposed to reach him! We have been disconnected and I won't be able to find him! Help please! I really really really miss him.
Update: GOOD NEWS! To all those negative people (haha just kidding), I was online today and a message popped up from an unknown screen name. I accepted and asked who it was, and it was him!! He said his account messed up and so he made a new one! :] He felt so bad
8 months ago
Most likely he had another girlfriend or other girls and probably he got more than he can handle, so best to disable the accounts. Believe me, if a guy was single, looking for girls on the net, he would be like you---trying to do anything possible not to lose touch with you. The fact that he disappeared and even disabled his account, only proves the fact that he was most likely playing you. Who knows, maybe he did have a girlfriend, and she came back, or maybe he was on the rebound, and the girlfriend came back. All that matters is that he decided to terminate communication with you, which only means that he has no interest in you. That's the only reality.
Forget about him he was just playing you. probably married. Since you could not reach him and he "discontinued or disabled" his account that means it was most likely a secondary account so you don't really know him. Don't worry over it and move on just be careful and be aware that there is a lot of dishonest people out there.
But we talked on web cam so I got to see him and he was my age. Should I still let it go? - 8 months ago
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Take it from me that does not mean a thing. I am a guy I know the games that guys play it is funny to a lot of guys out there to get a gal excited about a possible relationship and then leave her hanging. Some guy get a kick out of it and will sit around at night with their buddies and see who is the best at charming the ladies. Cheaper than going out on dates Sorry that's the truth - 8 months ago
WEll that's good. Sometimes they come back but do not get yuor hopes all high. I'm responded two months later I notice. lol. so hows everything with him now? yall meet?
Yes, you may have liked him and stuff but y'all never even met. it was all on the computer and your acting like y'all are madly in love. Anything could have happened such as his email probably got messed up. did you try contacting him on messenger? If he has made no effort to contact you, he wasn't really that into you. it was like a fling that he got bored with. not you personally but he probably got tired of the online thing. Truth is he probably just lost interest in time, meet someone else. no matter how well things may have seemed to you, he had a change of heart. its hard to understand guys sometimes. We think that they really like us then the next day they can just b gone and we r left with no explanation. But that's ok. there's more fish in the sea. forget him and move on.
Here is the thing, sounds to me like this was not a good person! Please be more careful about being online, get out more with your friends and get connected with friends through a youth group, bible study and such---it could be he didn't pay his bills----sounds to me like you are better off in long term----unless you are able to do some sort of background check on these guys, there are a lot of pervs out there that may look okay, yet, really they are only out there to hurt you and other girls like you.
Please be more careful and get out be more connected with your friends versus wasting time on your computer with some guy you really have no clue what he is about or his intentions!
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