One of my guy friends told me he thought it was pretty cool when a girl makes the first move. But I am a shy person so making the first move isn't exactly something I would look forward too.
Well the girl I'm dating right now actually made the first move and I'm so glad she did because every relationship I've been in I've made the first move and it was a very nice change.
Lo and behold 3 months later I'm still with this girl and haven't felt this way about any other girl
There are many guys who are shy and afraid of rejection just like you. So if a girl makes the first move, it means she likes us, and it gives us confidence. So yes, guys do like it when the girls make the first move. But at the same time, you do need to make him pursue you. If you give him everything on a platter, he will take you for granted.
No problem. The best way to go about it, is it get to know them first. This makes things easier, and plus you get to know them better to really see if that is someone you really want to date. - 8 months ago
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Yea. Its not even that I want a bf, I just want to be that close to someone and have some one really care about me. - 8 months ago
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I understand hun. Its what everyone wants, even more so for girls. But be patient, be picky, and find a good guy. I know it sucks being single and lonely. I'm right there with you. But if you're picky and patient, you can find a good one. - 8 months ago
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