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Does that blow your chances with that girl?

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GiJoe (Age:18 to 24)     When: 7 months ago
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If you are flirting with a girl and because your a little nervous and say something stupid does that blow your chances with that girl?

Update: I have to say I am shocked of how many girls actually like it when a guy gets a little a nervous.    6 months ago

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
Hahha, its the cutest thing eva! Especially when they mess up their wording, or look down, lol :) guys that are too overconfident are annoying.
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castaway00 (Age:Under 18)      When: 6 months ago
Omg no!! it's adorable when guys screw up!! I think it's cute when a guy turns all red and stuff. plus that shows he's self-conscious around you so he cares about what you think of him. :)
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Nooooooooo it doesn't. Just try building ur confidence around her. I'm sure she doesn't mind if you say something stupid because ur nervous, she might even think it's kinda cute you get nervous around her.
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kelkay (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
It's definitely cute!
Your chances are never totally blown unless you punch her in the face or insult her.
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AshleyL (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
What kind of stupid thing are you talking about? As long as you don't insult the girl, I would think you aren't ruining your chances.

I think it's kind of cute when a guy gets nervous and say things they don't mean too or something that is kind of dumb. It would probably make for a good laugh.

As long as it's not rude or insulting, then you're fine. Give it another shot.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
No. It's cute that a guy gets all nervous sometimes.
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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
Nah, I'd actually be quite flattered if a guy was getting all nervous because of me :)
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A-spot-of-trouble (Age:18 to 24)      When: 6 months ago
Not at all. She'll probably take it as a compliment that she flustered you.

(Assuming you said something brilliantly foot-in-mouth unintelligent, not insulting or crass, and doubly so if it was obvious that you were tripping over your own tongue.)
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gianakopulos (Age:25 to 29)      When: 6 months ago
I think girls like when we get nervous
what helps me is telling the girl I'm nervous and then we could laugh about it
just tell her wow I'm so nervous trying to talk to you and believe me if she's a nice girl she's gonna say don't be nervous and she might hold your hand if possible try faking it a little more but be careful not to go over the edge doing it because she might seem disgusted
alright buddy
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Nutz76 (Age:30 to 35)      When: 6 months ago
I've found it depends on where it happens at and how hot the woman is. If it's in a bar and her shields are up, then you're coming to look like a dork and be blown out. Doubly so if she's super hot.

If it's in a coffee shop or library, not so much. That's when it's more endearing. Doubly so if she's not as good looking.

In the last year I've approached about 200-250 women and that's just what I've found. Granted a lot more of it has to do with your delivery than simply flubbing what you say. If you get all flustered and choke up then you're not going to get very far. If you just look unaffected and plow forward you can recover rather well. But seriously though, delivery is key. You can practically walk up and read off your grocery list if you have your body language and vocal delivery down solid.
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soxfan94 Very well said. - 6 months ago
 
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