How do you ''intellectually stimulate'' a guy?

Question

I don't think of myself as stupid in the least, but I'm not a dictionary either. Does intellectually stimulating mean to interest him without being sexual? Like talking about his interests? Little bit confused. I posted the one about the Aquarius, so. This guy is Aquarius :)

Updates

+1 y

What questions should I ask him about. Don't know how to approach it.

I'm new at this, examples greatly appreciated :)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

People who are influenced by the star sign 'Aquarius' are very intelligent people. If you'd like to read more into in then I advise you read the book 'Sun signs by Linda Goodman' - it really goes into thorough detail of what each sun sign is like and is very handy to have.

What star sign are you?

Just to stay on the safe side and be cautious, Aquarians are very mysterious people and are intrigued by mystery and solving things. When they see something they like, whether it be persons of the opposite sex or an actual object, they want to put it under a microscope to investigate it, discover how it ticks, what turns it on, how to put it back together and pull it apart etc. Once they've found it all out - they get bored and move to the next sparkling thing that has caught their eye. So stay mysterious and keep them guessing. Just a bit of advice from an amateur astrologer.

If you end up reading the book I recommended, if your sun sign isn't Scorpio (or if it is - even better), then I suggest you read the Scorpio segment of the book also. Scorpios are known to be the most mysterious, sensual and captivating star signs in the zodiac. You could learn a thing or two from them.

Don't let this Aquarian in on too much. Keep him guessing and be playful with him. Keep him wanting more.

Good luck!

trickstir85 · Accepted Answer

When he brings up something that is interested in (i. E could be movies, sports, books etc) make sure to ask a lot of questions. If you don't know something about the subject matter. Don't worry. It's worse to look like a 'know-it-all', than to ask questions. Always open up with general questions than proceed to ask more specific questions. If he is a smart guy you will probably end up wavering off on to some random topic (ie. For example if you watched a movie that an interesting plot or moralistic twist. You may end up talking about the theme of the story rather than story itself). Intelligent people do not discuss what is at the 'surface' rather they discuss what is 'underneath' it all. Remember, you don't have to agree with everything he says, but do have a reason/idea why you don't agree. As well, have fun. Not everything has to be analyzed or debated upon. Hope that helps you out a little.

dharness818 · Accepted Answer

Ok this is really simple. Your goal is to make him talk about his likes and dislikes and make a connection. Don't be one of those girls who uses like in every sentence. Intellectually stimulating him has nothing to do with sex. Guys don't say it enough but a woman who has a mind is sexy. Just talk about your opinions of different things and he should be completely interested

g9g9g · Accepted Answer

For me, it means I don't get a glossy-eyed look every time I talk about something remotely intellectual. Some girls get by in life on their looks and personality with no particular attention paid to their mind, and it's a pretty big turn off if I can't talk with a girl about anything more than superficial topics.

Using an example you might be familiar with: Just don't be like Brian's girlfriend from the TV show "Family Guy". You really don't have to be a genius at all, in fact, it's pretty easy to be intellectually stimulating without knowing anything-- it lets you ask questions. So next time he's talking about something that's new to you, ask. Everyone likes to talk about what they're interested it, so I'm sure he'll be delighted that you've taken some interested in whatever topic he's into that moment.

I wouldn't worry about planning questions ahead of time, just go with whatever you're talking about at the time. And don't be afraid to bring up things that you find intellectually stimulating that he doesn't know about, if he seeks intellectual stimulation he'll want to hear about it.

disfabioguise · Accepted Answer

It means to stimulate the mind with knowledge either known or not known enough. For example, I love talking about every thing that can be said about computers, however I still don't know every single thing there is to know about them so every time someone feeds me new information about something I either did or didn't know enough about my mind becomes intellectually stimulated.

How do you ''intellectually stimulate'' a guy?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

How do you ''intellectually stimulate'' a guy?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.