Guys, once you know that the girl you like wants you and you KNOW 100% that you can have her whenever you want. Does that make you pull away and ignore her because you know you can have her? Does it make you like her less and pursue other girls because you already know that you can have her with a snap of your fingers?
It really depends on the girl if I like her then I don't mind but if I am not that into her and she's really into me oh man talk about a turn off especially if she's really clingy and needy and always asking me if I want to be with her that will make me run, but if I like her too and she's needy and clingy I kind of like that unless she starts to annoy me.
I've never really thought about it up until now but yea. I used to flirt with this girl a lot and then when I found out she liked me I just sorta packed up and didn't speak to her much anymore. Kind of counter-intuitive but I don't know why I've done it countless times. And it's not that I'm a "player" because I've really only had 1 girlfriend so far, but it just takes the fun of the chase out of it I guess.
Let me tell you something honey, there is no problem in letting a man know that you like him. You can do that either verbally or through body language. HOWEVER, once he knows, the trick here is you have to Back off! Don't be clingy or needy or he'll run. Once you follow my advise, he'll be very intrigued by you and will find you sexy. But make sure that the guy has some kind of feelings for you. Good luck!
Guys are really funny to watch when they find out a girl likes them. It does put them off the chase because I know several guys that just stopped perusing the girl. It was really funny actually to watch but kind of cruel at the same time because he neglected her. You should just play hard to get. A guy wants someone he has to work to get not just someone he can take whenever.