Ok here's the deal there's this girl that I know, the first time I met her I got her number, took her out on a date, and then bam she texted the hell outta my phone, well it suddenly stopped so I was like whatever move on, well then a couple months later I see her again we talk and we start to go on more dates, I start to like the girl, I think she's into me, well she comes to my party with this dude and bunch of friends, she doesn't say anything about him and they hang out for a while and then leave, she texts me the next day to hang out so we do. Fast forward schools out for a break and I took her home lives in the same city and when we come back I pick her up at that guys house and I said who's that she goes oh he's just a friend, so I was like cool. Then I go into kiss the girl and she's goes you can't kiss me yet, so I was like ok. Then she invites me to a party and there he is again and apparently she has been dating this guy for a while now why the hell didn't she say she had a boyfriend before or even when I tried to kiss her?
Given what you have described, she has not had very good relationships in the past and is hurt. This is her way of dealing with her past and it's not very nice. If she is not being honest now, she won't be honest later on. You need to decide if this is what you want or not.
So if you had a boyfriend and someone tried to kiss you would you say hey I have a boyfriend sorry or would you just say you can't kiss me yet? - 3 months ago
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I wouldn't even get myself in such a situation! If I had a boyfriend, I would not be going out with other guys and make them think that I am available. But, in regards to your question, if I were in the situation that you described, I would say that I have a boyfriend sorry. - 3 months ago
She's losing interest in her current boyfriend and is looking for someone else. If you and her get more serious she will probably leave him for you (no guarantees). She is not willing to risk what she has if she thinks that you are just around for the flirt. This narrows your choices down. You can either stop seeing her now and no harm is done or keeping seeing her and hope she leaves her baggage behind.
She came back to work and spent almost two hours talking to me. Whenever we work together we end up spending a lot of time talking to each other.
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