I see this one guy in a once-a-week volleyball class at a local community college and I only got to start talking with him like a bit over a month ago. . . But I'm finding that I really like the guy!
Only problem is I really don't know him that well and sometimes he comes with this girl. . . But I don't know if they are related, dating, married, friends, etc!
Last week she wasn't there and he asked me if I wanted to warm up with him and I of course accepted and like half way through I said "So where is your friend?! "
And he responded "Oh she has to take care of 'mommy' duties! " and I was totally taken aback and was like "No way! I had no idea she was a mother! " and he was just like "yep! " and that was about it because we got distracted!
And now today her daughter was there and I said hi and chatted with her and the mother, who are both nice as can be! When I see this guy, Ed, and her together I have never seen them kiss or hold hands or hug or anything like that but I'm still wary because hell no do I want to like mess up an existing relationship! As I was walking back to my stuff at the end of practice I heard the little girl say "Daddy. . . Or Eddy. . . I don't know which one (DAMN HIS NAME! )
I have a friendly/flirty personality but I try to give like my attention to him a fair amount of time and he seems to give me like a huge amount of his attention. I don't know! What is the best way to ask this guy if he is available without coming on too strong? And if he is available what is the best way to let him know I'm interested but put the ball in his court for getting something started?!
You can so easily find if he's single by saying stuff like you have very friendly/nice wife, if that's his wife he will say thanks etc, if not he might say oh that's not my wife she's just a friend. If he did say she's not my wife, you can say you must have a girlfriend then. This way you can totally find out if he's single or not without creeping him out if he's not interested in you.
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