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I know she likes me but we're both too shy to admit it?

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Nickt (Age:Under 18)     When: 3 months ago
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Ok so I've been chatting with this girl for about 3 weeks now. We've hung out on multiple occasions and plan to hang out more. I'm about 70% sure she likes me (she looks like she's being indecisive) and I know I like her.
The only problem is:
1) I'm a guy and know well enough that going "i like you" probably isn't the best idea in this situation
2) I'm a little to shy myself to tell her.

As for her I'm pretty confident that she will never tell me "i like you".

What would be the best course of action in this situation.


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heatherlovesyou (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Flirt with her and if she flirts back bingo she likes you and if she likes you and you know it ask her out get up the courage to ask her or get one of your friends to ask her if she likes you if your friends with one of her friends then ask that friend to ask her if she likes you.
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JustAStranger (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Try to test her like he said, but you have to be careful because she could just be having a moment. Or when your talking to her just be like ohkay, so I really like you and want to get to know you a lot better. Because I know from experience knowing people for that short of a time isn't always the best thing when it comes to dating. Even though we all fall for them when we just meet them.
So try to just put it out there. And try to not make it that big of a deal or it will go over your head and you may panic. Also don't try to sound like a kid when you say that you like her, like when your just standing there saying goodnight or something grab her hands look her in the eyes and say it like you mean it. Then if you feel like it was good or she responds positively you may try to kiss her if you can muster up that kind of courage.
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Question Asker I gave her a hug yesterday. It came from far away so she saw it and walked into it. She was red in the face after though.

But that was supposed to be a "good job on finishing the AP" hug not a "there you are" hug like she probably interpreted it to be.

But ya. - 3 months ago
Answerer Well when you hug her how is it? You might want to try for a hug that lasts more than a few seconds that you really hold her tight on. But not to the point where she can't breath. - 3 months ago

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Lovin-laughter (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
I would say that you should try hanging out but you seem to already have that. It sounds like your doing the right thing. You should try opening up more. So that your more comfortable around each other. Sooner or later it will come out. And the more open you are about things the better chance that you will both feel more comfortable saying that you like each other.
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Schneiderman
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Schneiderman (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Try doing it with body language to. You don't necessarily have to "tell" her through words.

Just like grab her hand while standing in line with her. And see what she does
little tests like that
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