Okay so I really like this guy and for a few days he was making a lot of eye contact and smiling at me and stuff like that. Lately he's been acting nervous and he avoids my gaze. Whenever I look at him he turns away and if I sit by him he is on edge. It's like he is contradicting himself. Do you guys think he likes me and is just nervous or that he knows I like him and doesn't like me? I seriously want to ask him out but his mixed messages are making me unsure of whether or not he likes me back.
Update: He made eye contact with me for like 10 or 15 seconds one day last week and then another day I was helping out this girl in my math class and he was sitting behind her and smiling at me. But since these 2 things he's been acting nervous and guarded.
6 months ago
He's probably a shy guy. I had a guy do that to me and I know for a FACT that he liked me and he finally admitted to my friend that he was shy. Why don't you go over and say hi to him. Trust me, these shy guys NEVER make the first move. Good luck!
The thing is that he is super popular and I'm not sure if a guy can be popular yet shy around girls. It just drives me crazy. The big problem is that I'm a shy girl and I hate making the first move but I might have to and as much as I want to do it by note I'm not going to because I don't want to seem like a wimp. So now I have to get him alone which is pretty hard to do. I want to ask him out the friday before exams. - 6 months ago
Answerer
Trust me. Just because a guy is popular doesn't mean that he's not shy around a girl that he likes. It's very possible. I'm guessing you're still in highschool so if you're super shy then just wrie your feelings in a note and give it to him. You're young enough where that is acceptable. I am shy too but I finally had to get the guy's #. He turned out to be too shy for me but at least I found that out and didn't wait for "what if. " Let me know if you have any other questions. - 6 months ago
Question Asker
Yeah I'm in highschool. I'm a freshman. I think I'm going to talk to one of my friends because I haven't told anyone that I like him yet. I may jut ask her to watch for "signs" lol. The thing is I was talking to this freshman guy who is apparently really hot yesterday through this site and he said not to ask out by note because regret is worse than rejection and that guys are less perceptive than girls and won't notice that you are nervous. The hardest part is getting him alone because he never is. - 6 months ago