I want it to be very smooth and not awkward at all.
Update: Btw me and him talk all the time and I'm like 99. 9% sure he likes me and he Should know I like him too, we flirt all the time but I don't have the guts to ask him for his number and like I said I don't wanna make it awkward
6 months ago
Update: Thanks all of you guys! I'm gonna try it tomorrow because I didn't see him today and I'll let ya'll know how it went =)
6 months ago
1. You gotta have a face to face conversation with him. 2. When the conversation is in its peak, tell him you have to go 3. And have him to call you later the day 4. If he don't have your #. He will ask you for it 5. Have him call you NOW. So that you also have his # as well.
And NOW you guys are ready to take it to the next level.
Most girls don't ask me for their number, they just ask to see my phone and then type in theirs.
I've only had to ask for 2 girls' numbers ever since I got my phone. Not including the time I lost my phone and had to ask for EVERYONE'S numbers. Anyways... ask to see his phone and add yourself as a contact and if he's interested, then he'll call you. Good luck!
Oh I know what you mean! The easiest way for me is if he has some of the same friends that you do too. Because then you can set up a day that you can all hang out, then casually ask some people by him if you can have their numbers, then you'll get to him and it won't be awkward at all.
My friends use to go into what we called "intense flirt mode" and ask him he would could play with his phone or take pics with it. Then we would type our # and the phone and save it 2 his contacts sayin CALL HERE. So far it's worked. Lol Otherwise ask him if you can call him and tell him you like him.
You should be like "omg I got the funniest text, what's your number so I can text you it" or just be upfront about it because he prob. Nervous and it will show ur confidence
Just ask for his number. He's probably just as nervous as you. The worst thing he could say is "no". If he says "no", don't be embarrassed but rejoice in your confidence! Rejection hurts and everyone experiences it but getting a "no" is better than wasting your time chasing after something that is moving in the opposite direction. If you worry that he will say "no" and blab to all his friends on top of the "no", be relieved because then you know his true character however, if he truly likes you as you believe than you should have no worries! Furthermore, for the great aspirations I'm you want to achieve in life and will, should make such a question as this a piece of cake! :)
If you ask and he responds by saying "what for? " (putting you on the spot) simply reply that you wanted to call him later in the week to hang out. This response does not insinuate that you are asking him out on a date, truly it could be a number of things.
This is probably taking it too far but if the response is "are you asking me out on a date? " (putting you on the spot) throw the ball back in his court without revealing your feelings before you truly know his by asking, "well, what's your definition of a date? " he'll give some response in which then you reply, 'well, I really didn't put too much thought into it" take a piece of paper out of your bag, scribble your number (smile) and then hand it over "if you want, give me a call and we can hang out! " This may prompt him to give you his at that time. That may not even be necessary because he may just give it to you before you make that move. Just because a response such as "i did not put too much thought into it" may imply to him that you like him just as a friend, fear not, for he did the same by putting you on the spot in the first place.
My roommate liked a girl at work. She gave him her number. I asked him that same night if he was going to call her to hang out. He said, "no. Not yet". I said, "Matt. Are you doing this because there is some kind calculation to what day you call somebody after you were given a number? " He said "yessss. " and I said, "that's ridiculous for truly girls really don't like that. (even though they use the same calculation rule-which is equally ridiculous- and this calculation rule a precursor to many head games down the road which I find equally ridiculous) I told him to call her and we made a bet. I was right! And she returned his call a few minutes later.
I agreed with Semishy. If you like the guy just give him your number. You can just say "Hey if you want to hang out sometime or talk, just call me. Here is my number. " If the guy likes you, definitely he will call you. Good Luck!
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