Ive been going to the same club now for about a year. There's this guy I've noticed since the first time, and ever since I've noticed that he stares at me. A lot. No matter where im at, he sees me, or comes and stands near me, keeps his eyes on me the entire night. If im dancing with another guy, he watches, but never speaks. The one night he did dance with me, was when I was there with a guy I was talking to, and he started to dance with me and I walked away.
It irritated me that he'd been watching me for so many months, but just decided to dance when I was with someone. Last night at the club, he was the same way. He's not out "dancing" with everyone. He is literally standing there, I was dancing with another guy and he walked away until I was done. Then and makes his way over to me when im dancing with a girlfriend, he's like standing so close that im actually bumping into him as im dancing. Finally I say if you're gone b on th dance floor. You gota dance! He smiled and we danced.
A little later, my friend and I had walked around the club and made our way back to the floor. And I walked over to him, cause he stands there and kinda moves around shy like and doesn't really dance with anyone, I've actually never seen him dance with a girl before. And I started dancing with him and he smiled really big. But still he never spoke! My friend asked him his name, and he told her and she told him my name.
While we were dancing, its like he didn't know what to do with his hands. He'd put them near my waist, kinda touching me and kinda not touching me. A couple times drunk people would knock into us and he'd grab me and I'd kinda grab him. But stilll noooo talking! I asked where he was from, he answered, I told him where I was from. And that was it! Hah what is this guys problem? Is it possible to be this shy? I'm 26, and he is im sure at least my age if not older. So its not like he's an 18 year old boy. I've never experienced a shy guy before. Is he into me? Or does he just want to stare at me? What is the deal? I kinda feel like the the one night he got up the nerve to dance with me, an I blew him off because I was there with someone else, maybe that made him think I was a snob or something. But the only reason I did that, was because of all the times he's had a chance to dance with me, he waits till he sees me with someone else.
So last night I kinda made the first move, but it felt a little weird with him being so silent. Wouldn't a guy that's into me, try to get to know me? Or am I going to have to initiate all conversation? What do I do?
Update: i added the update in a new question. was too much to type for this limited block. the new update is titled " Update: shy guy at club always starring at me.& I asked for his phone number but he took mine instead. why? " so if ur curious.
2 months ago
That's kind of creepy. If he's into you, he should try to get to know you. I don't think you should have to initiate it, HE's the one who is feeling you.
Okay so00o0o I think that this guy is into oyu but either he is like real shy or he's not good at socializing I think that your gonna have to start the conversation if you want him to talk back at all.
Yeah thanks for the comments yaw. that's what I kinda felt. I'm going on 27 years old and never experienced a shy guy before. I did sorta initiate the dancing, it was like he was waiting on me to.. and he smiled really big.. its just weird to me.. so we'll see what happens saturday night! - 3 months ago
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