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What do I do about this guy?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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Theres this guy I work with. We flirt all the time. we talk about pretty much everything. he flirts with me more than anyone else. but when he gets around his guy friends that work there he turns into such a douche bag. The bad part is he flirts with me but doesn't want to hang out. AND he will sit there and talk about other chicks in front of my face. like when a girl walks by he will sit there and say "oh she's hot" or something like that. I'm so frustrated I don't know if he does that just to see if I get jealous or what. Everyone thinks we just want to hook up but I don't want that. I want more to this than that.but since he doesn't want to hang out or anything I think that's all he wants from me. I just don't know. He's a really good guy at heart but I just don't know about him. Flirts but doesn't want to hang out? He jokes about our private conversations with his friends at work to my face.and laughs about it. What is up with that? Should I just forget him or just try even harder to be with him?

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Schneiderman (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
I'm going to have to agree with euro raver here. if this guy is being a two-face, flirting with you and all and then not wanting to hang out and changing to a different person ...
don't waste your time on him. you shouldnt have to go through that
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Euro-Raver (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
Don't even waste your time on this clown. Any guy that acts differently to you in front of the guys is a guy that doesn't really love you. If anything he just wants to get in your pants. And yea I could see it from the douche-bag point of view of calling other girls hot to make you jealous.
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hippygirl (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Ok the word doesn't. Has he told you that to your face, or does he say '' I can't I'm busy''? he could generally be busy. ''oh she's hot'' Guys will do anything to get a rise out of a girl in particularly they might like. But then again he could just be a bit of a perv. Just ask him if he would like to get a coffee some time out of work. Ask him questions. '' open ended questions work a lot better as you can get just a yes or a no ''. In my opinion I think he might just want a fling, but I'm not to sure difficult to say.
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