I've developed a thing for my friend (parker), and no its not just a crush, this much I'm sure of. At a birthday party Parker and I were flirting the whole night. He'd tease me every 5 seconds. And I don't mean normal friend teasing I mean flirting/teasing. Then a few days after that he came home on my bus. We chatted for a while but he stopped to read one of the books we need to read for our English class. I ended up holding his lunch box (god knows why ?) so then about 10 minutes before he had to go he just grabbed the strap and we ended up playing tug of war with it. Then he tried tickling me to get me to let go. Our bus driver heard the commotion and stopped the bus (really embarrassing). So since then I've been talking with my friends and all of them agreed that we might as well go out, and all of them said that we flirted all the time. One of my friends in particular told me that she thinks he wants a girlfriend and he might be interested in me. She also told me that she's never seen him act this way towards anyone, ever. That made me feel really happy and special, I like the way he treats me. I think he's a great guy. Anyways from what I've told you, do you think he likes me?
I'm sure he does! If this is the first person he's shown his true emotions to then hell yea! But of course guys are shy just like girls and maybe he's taking it slow. Everyone has a different amount of time in their mind, about when friends turn to more than friends. Girls generally will flirt with guys several times (anywhere from 3-7 times generally) and be talking to their friends about it and then have this idea that they should start 'going out'. A lot of guys really don't know when this border is crossed, and really don't think to much of it. A lot of guys find someone they like, flirt and play with them, and will continue to do so without the pressure of wondering when things will turn to more than that. Some of us just like to take things slow and just hang out and become very close friends without actually verbally telling one another that they are 'bf & gf' even though it is apparent that things have gotten that far.
So yea he obviously is interested in you, but might not actually ask you to 'go out' with him, but still hang out with you often enough to be considered it. I hope that I might have shed a little light on your subject! Just have fun and be yourself!
That definately helped. thanks, but what should I do, if anything at all? - 7 months ago
Answerer
I wouldn't do anything out of the ordinary to speed things up. It only takes time for both of you to be at the same level and feel the same way. You will know when the moment is right ;)
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