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How do I let a much older guy know I like him?

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meomy11 (Age:Under 18)     When: 2 months ago
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he is a hottie and I know older guys teen girls= BAD but he is a cutie and I just want to get to know him he is a waiter at s restaurant I go to a lot and when I'm there he stares at me and looks away quickly he used to do that now he just stares and smiles when I look his way

Update: someone please help me I mean how do I approach him I don't want to seem awkward if I ask to be seated at his table I mean am I in over my head here I want to just leave him alone but its as if I'm fascinated by him and the fact that he is older than me    2 months ago

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obscene (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Why don't you take a seat over there?
What are you doing here?
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Yeah, that's really nasty
Just tell him, "I'm too young for you. Why can't you get girls your own age?"
Or you could ask him the first two questions in my answer
Make sure you introduce him to Chris Hansen

The only older men that would want to date a child can't get girls his own age
Your daddy will polish his shotgun if he ever finds out

Why don't you date guys your own age? There's a lot of nice guys in your high school! As bizarre as it may sound, the only ADULTS 20+ that would date a teenager CHILD in high-school (even after their underage status is known to the adult) are actually LESS mature than high-school boys!

Jailbait!
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Question Asker Thx but Its hard dating guys my own age because I go to an all girl school and live in an area where there aren't many teen boys only like 20 and above also teen guys never actually have the confidence to come talk to me they either stare or stare and look away nervously plus I don't really look my age and I'm into bigger guys and 20 year olds are well bigger I know it's not right and I am attempting to meet guys my age but it's hard also the waiter is a total hottie trust me he can get girls - 2 months ago
 

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Gia65 (Age:36 to 45)      When: 2 months ago
Hi Meomy11:

I am curious how much older is this guy/or how much older do you think he is?

Do you understand the difference from being say 25 and going out with a 35 year old guy opposed to being a teen in your case 16 and dating a guy who is 21 and older?

Have you ever spoke with this guy? Do you even know if he is available?

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Question Asker I have spoke to him but I'm not sure he is available but he sure acts like it and he is DEFINITELY NOT 35 EEW I MEAN WHY WOULD I GO OUT WITH A 35 YEAR OLD GUY I like him and I want to know more about him I need a way to talk to him it's not like I want to have sex with him I just want to be able to find ways to approach him - 2 months ago

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kandi (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
You just have to be honest with him. This may not end the way you want it, but it's better than feelings of dishonor and betrayal.

Now I don't know ho old you are (I'm going to assume at least 16) and a guy 5-7 years older would be in the range of 21-23. This means that he's probably getting ready to graduate within the next few years (if he is a college student). He may or may not be up for the idea of dating a teenager.

You'll never know until you ask.

Either way, be careful.
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