How do I go from Hugging and Cuddling to Kissing?

Okay. Well, what I would recommend, is you wait until you're already cuddling or something, just so that you're close. Then whisper her name, and when she looks at you, move in slowly. Get close, but hesitate when you're maybe a couple inches away from her face. If she's ready, she'll probably move closer a little, close her eyes, or tilt her head. If she doesn't move, then move just a tad closer and ask her if you can kiss her, in some way, shape or form. My personal favorite is "If I were to kiss you right now, would you kiss me back?" Voila, there's your transition. Now, the kissing part. First, part your lips just a little, but not too much. You don't want to swallow her face. Then, tilt your head a little. If she's already tilting her head, take a cue from her and tilt yours slightly in the opposite direction. But if she's not, you can take your pick, left or right, depending on your position. Then, close your eyes and just lightly press your lips against hers. You don't want to scare her with an intense kiss right off the bat. Pull away, open your eyes, and look her in the eyes. If she wants more, she'll most likely move back in. Then as you progress, you can add more pressure. The rest is pretty much instinctual.

when I first kissed my boyfriend it was when we were hugging and as we were pulling away our faces we already close so it made it much easier, he just took my chin softly and pulled my lips toward his. first kisses are supposed to be cute but most of the time you are both just so nervous that its more like awkward. but after the second or third time it becomes a lot more natural. trust me I bet she is just waiting for you to pull the move. I don't think you should mention kissing her before you do cause when guys do that to me it creeps me out!

If you are already cuddling with her then your just right before kissing. Which makes it totally natural to just naturally peck her on the lips while you are cuddling with her. I would say start off that way before the whole making out stuff. Then after kissing maybe you can start making out a little later. Good luck!

Look up Vin DiCarlo. He's a master of physical escalation. Also read his free ebook the Kino Escalation Ladder. It's top notch stuff:

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to go from hugging and cuddling to kissing one must kiss.

there is no other way.

to make her feel comfortable about kissing, you absolutely have to kiss her.

I think your problem really is not because you have no idea how to kiss. More of trying to pluck the courage to just go for it and perhaps how to go about getting to it.

Now should you ask or just go for it? It really depends on the situation. But if you're hugging her and kissing her on the cheeks, then how about giving her soft kisses on the cheeks starting from close to the ears and make it all the way to her lips and throughout that time just wing it and try to get a feel if she will stop you and just kiss her lips the way you were kissing her cheeks. The rest will follow, don't think to much about any acrobatic kissing, that can come later.

A variation would be when you are almost at her lips, just say something in almost a whispher and romantic way "I am dying to kiss you right now".