So there's this girl, were both Seniors in highschool. And from the same highschool in california. We have been really good friends for our whole junior year. I met her threw one of my very good guy friends who is also very good friends with her. Lately I have been realizing that I am starting to fall for her. The problem is that she is going out with another of my very good friends. She always says she really likes him but I wonder sometimes. they hardly ever hang out and I am around her way more that her boyfriend is. She will never stop texting me and this has gone for about 4 months now. The thing with this girl is she talks very sexually lol, she doesn't mind talking about sex and always says stuff to me about having sex or other sex related things. but it seems that she does this with a lot of guys. Lately she has been saying "I love you" a lot and she does it very convincing theres never any LOLs after them and she says it every day. Now the weird part. Today masturbation got brought up in the conversation and she said maybe she could make me a video. and about an hour later I received a video but it wasn't working. I asked to resend it and she says she deleted it and refuses to tell me what was on the video. She says she CANT tell me. sorry for the long input but I just can't understand this. Im pretty sure that video was of her doing the dirty. Cause she would have no reason to not tell me if it wasnt. Just please explain this chick to me. I am getting so many mixed signals.
she is a pretty outgoing short blond hair girl named Sara. lol thought id throw that in.
hmmmm I think maybe her mr.perfect boyfriend isn't so perfect for her. haha maybe her boyfriend isn't pleasuring her enough and she's looking for it. maybe she even sees it in you.
if she's still with her boyfriend and keeps doing this ask her straight up like "whats going on with you and [her boyfriends name]?" maybe that'll set her off guard.
but what ever you do make sure she's not using you, that can really hurt . =/ trust me. been there done that.
Naw she would never use me. weve been good friends for a while now. and haha her current Boyfriend for some reason is having problems with taking any steps forward and they really haven't done ANYTHING yet. - 5 months ago
I think she likes you.but I don't know why she would send you a video of herself if she's dating your friend.but I think you should just talk to her about.ask her if she has feelings for you(I think she does) and just see what she says.hope this helps!:)
She probably does like you,maybe she is just really confident with her sexuality some girls are like that were they can talk to guys about that kind of stuff now honestly the sending the video is really messed up considering she is dating you're best friend
in my opinion I would tell you're best friend about it and ask him not to tell her because then that would ruin yours and her relationship,tell him you don't wan2 seem like a dick but you wanted to be a good friend.he will probably most likely break up with her so then you can swoop in and seek her out I don't know ill think on it a little bit more
Yea she is very confident about the sexual stuff.But she has kind of a low self esteem if that meas anything to you. but yea if you could think on it il be back on in a few days. thanks - 6 months ago
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