so, last night I sent this guy that I like a message asking him to do a smail favor for me by voting for this friend of mine. (he didn't know her) Anyways I gave him the link but forgot to tell him her name. So instead of asking me what her name was over messaging he called me. And we talked for a minute and I don't know if he would have said anything else because I told him I had to go. So, later on that night me and some friends made plans to hang out (hes friends with them as well) and I messaged him to tell him the plans and he called me 2 minutes later. When I answered he said "hey I know you probably think I'm stocking you because I've called twice tonight". And then he asked about the plans. So, we hung out the next day and me and a friend rode in his car. She hopped in the back and I started to but then he was like, you know you can sit up here with me if you want to. Then on the way from bowling we were headed to lunch and he told his friend to wait on me because I had rode with him to bowling.
I ended up riding with someone else but when I went to tell him he said "Ohh okay." And then when he asked me to sit in the front seat the first time I said Id just sit in the back. So, I kind of turned him down more than once. IF that was him hitting on me or putting himself out there.
Anyways he is always looking directly into my eyes. I can be talking to someone and then look over at him and we instantly make eye contact. And then sometimes when he doesn't think I'm looking he looks me over. And yesterday he purposely let me see him.
I'm really confused because I sent him another message the other night and he was very casual and called me dude and everything. I'm really confused. He is really friendly so I don't know if he is just being friendly with me. What do you think?
eye contact is aways good. but here's what I think. he may like you, but needs to know more, wants to hang with you more or at least if he is a guy like me.
word of advise: don't get excited over everthing he does. guys like appreciation, but don't be like a little brother either. I'm sure you have had this too where you just need some space. but I doubt you will be like that. more likely:
don't be afraid to "look to anxious" go ahead and call him to hang out again!
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