ok just a question, for the girls mainly, but it seems like girls get creeped out by someone liking them. here's my problem, I go to an engineering school, I work in a chemical distribution store, and basically don't know many girls, except like a few close ones and a few I meet at church, but I don't really like the idea of meeting a lot of girls at church, just seems fundamentally wrong, but never mind that.
the close ones are great don't get me wrong, but is there a way to like flirt to strangers without becoming a creepy guy? I would be happy with just another friend, but maybe more is ok too you know? so I was wondering if there was something a guy could say to you or do that would not be all creeper status. I dono I'm shy too so taht kinda makes it harder, but I can be funny sometimes, but not on demand, I just htink of random things that are funny. like dry humor.
Well just approach them! You won't look creepy if you act normally. The creepy guys are the ones that come like "aah what's uuuup?" like you're a piece of meat, you know what I mean?
I personally think girls would love being approached at "common" places. I asked a similar question here a while ago. I usually see a lot of cute guys at the grocery store or the subway and I just wish they approached me somehow. So maybe one of those "strangers" you see would love if you made the first move. Just be friendly and find something funny to say. And if she rejects you, oh well, try it with another girl.
If you're shy, like me, that can be really hard, so I guess maybe you should try talking to strangers you're not attracted to first. And when you're a master at that, try talking to girls you're interested in.
sure there is. this is easy, just be friendly. don't try and flirt right off the bat. that's just sleazocreepamatica. be friendly, be yourself, and keep the conversation going. ask questions, find interests, ask opions, you name it. and then go from there. just be confident and be yourself. the rest will fall right into place. - j
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