I have a slight problem. I am an attractive enough girl who has immense problems meetings guys - I go to an all girls school. All the boys I do know, well, I guess they are not the right ones because it's strictly friends. Anyway, I go to the gym several days a week and often see cute guys there. I hate to seem desperate, but at this point, I feel like this is the only place I'll meet new guys before college. Anyway, how do I talk to them or signal for them to talk to me? Sometimes I worry that they are too focused on working out to want to talk to a girl, or teenage guys are shy. I have made eye contact and smiled with several, and it seems to be going good, but then they don't end up talking to me. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I am nervous to talk to them and expect them to approach me? I want to do it in the least creepy way possible!
You could try getting on one of the machines next to one of them and just ask some questions like "how long how have been going here?" or just chit-chat about anything. They may be too focused/shy to start a conversation with you like you said. but who knows, maybe they're already with someone. Casually approaching/talking with them would seem to be the way to go.
Okay, so I really like this guy who lives in my neighborhood, but we've like only talked briefly and he's pretty chill. I want to makeout with him,...
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When: 3 months ago
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