My best friend is mad what should I do

haha kind of funny, same thing happened to me recently.

I solved it by fulling admitting everything to my friend and apologizing a ton. Telling her I was wrong and she should be able to trust me around guys she likes, etc. After the talk she took some time to cool off and now everything's fine. You just have to own up and apologize.

Now in my case, she had liked this guy for a while so I knew I was wrong. However, if you don't think you were wrong, apologize in some way but tell him things just clicked with you two and that he hadn't developed things fully with her so it was fair game.

Haha wow. How ironic.

Well, in my opinion, the best way to go about this, would to just be honest. If your friend knows about what happened between you and her, then you should definitely talk to him about it to set things right. It's not always the most fun thing to do, or the most easy, but it is the right thing to do. Even though your friend will definitely be upset, he would realize how much courage and trust you have in him to be able to face the problem, discuss it, and solve it, rather than just ignore it, pretend as if it didn't matter, and go around behind his back.

If your friend is really your friend, then he will come to forgive you and accept the fact that the girl likes you. You can't really help it if she likes you, and not him. You can't control what cards you're dealt, But you can, however, decide how to play them. Don't bluff.

Worst comes to worst, you'll have to make a decision: What matters more- your buddy, or this girl? Is some chick really worth the sacrifice of a friendship?

Good luckk, man. Hope this helps, somewhat.

Learn your lesson; don't play matchmaker ever again.

Look man, it's not your responsibility to help you boys pick up girls. If they ask, you can teach 'em what you do, or tell them what you WOULD do if you were them. Just don't do it for them.

You "friend" is a big dork with huge insecurity. HE thinks, that because he talked to her, that now he "owns" her.

Physical violence over a girl he barely knows that he just talked to? That's not a friend bro, that's a lose cannon. That's a guy that's so shy, that merely talking to a girl, is like earth sharing moment for him.while for you, it's probably barely a step forward and you know that there's a lot more to it before you can really feel for someone. YOU are working in reality, your "friend" is immature and will probably BE that way for a long time.

Now if you're a true player, you realize, so what you got flirty with her and you kissed her, that's not worth getting into a fight over in anyway. There's many fish in the sea and your friend is only going to blow himself out with her in a matters of days. Best to just avoid him and her for a bit, and get busy with doing other things.

On the OTHER hand, I don't advocate backing down from seeing someone becuase a third person doesn't like that. The fact is, a friend is NOT a friend, when they threaten violence, and if you don't get in a fight over this, you'll probably get in a fight over something down the road. Better to drop this kid all together and figure out what you want to do with your new GF.

At the very least, you can tell him something like.

"Fighting over girls is f****** lame. I'm really surprised and I think its totally f****d ** that you'd be willing to drop our friendship over some chick we both hardly know at all. That's not being men. That's what loser chumps with no skillz with women do. I refuse to fight you becuase at the very least -I- value our friendship, or whatever is left of it, DESPITE whatever the f*** you think of me. Out of respect for our friendship, you need to leave me the f**** alone until you come to your senses. BRO." hang up.

Good luck.