I really don't think it's easy to tell. The biggest indicator though in that situation would probably be whether or not he treats other girls the same. If he does, he might be less likely to be interested. Though he still could be interested because anything is possible.
One other thing I can think of is if you and him get into "heavy moments" where the atmosphere is sensual, that might be a sign too.
All I know is this guy used to be around me 24/7, was playful, goofy, hit or kicked me, was always protective and worried about me...always watched me...and well he has this goofy social personality so I can't tell the difference. - 5 months ago
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He used to be? Why did he stop? - 5 months ago
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I don't really know...Im guessing because of something I said because the next time I saw him after this one particular night that's when I noticed his change. - 5 months ago
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Would you mind sharing what it is you said? Maybe I can help repair the change, that is, if you want it restored. - 5 months ago
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I just basically said "EWWW" when he wanted to know if I was available but in more words than that...and tha'ts not what I meant in the least bit. - 5 months ago
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Given the information, yeah, I'd say he liked you, but then you told him off, so he backed off and stopped acting the way he was. - 5 months ago
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Who knows...all I know is he changed. he still cares and all that junk but his attention is considerably less and I don't know how to get it back. - 5 months ago
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So, you want him to like you again? - 5 months ago
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I never not wanted him to dislike me...all I know is things changed so fast and its like confusing now...its like some days he won't acknowledge me but the second I leave the room he chases after me....or weird things like that. - 5 months ago
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Woops I phrased that wrong...I mean I never wanted him to dislike me...I've always liked him. It's just weird and confusing around him now...I mean there are days where he won't say anything to me when I know he knows I'm there and then wham the second I start leaving he'll chase after me and start talking to me as if he was trying to stop me from leaving...or if I'm not really talking to him he'll ask me if something's wrong and he'll wanna talk about it. - 5 months ago
Or I'll catch him glancing at me or I'll find out from someone that he was talking about me with them (in good ways)....but then at the same time when I'm around its like I don't know...its like he wants to talk to me but doesn't or he's hesitating or god knows what...its hard to describe. - 5 months ago
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He likely had feelings for you, and you crushed them, so he's trying to distance himself and be more of a friend for you. He doesn't know this isn't what you want.
I suggest asking him one of these days, "Hey, how come you've changed?"
Also, how often do you and him hang out? How often do you call him, not him calling you, but you calling him? - 5 months ago
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